openmarriagelove
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For the better part of our open marriage, I've had the wrong goals in what I was looking for. I was more often enjoying the new attention of quick relationships that wouldn't last. I've grown tired of it and have since changed my thinking to wanting to find someone who is more suitable to our non-monogamous beliefs. It's hard!!!
I'm finding that most people in my area who believe in polyamory are not my type. No offense, but I have found a lot to be very spiritual, Wiccan, earthy, long-haired vegetarian types, where I prefer more of a rough and tough, football-loving, bald-headed, manly-man type. Four years and I have yet to find someone that has the same beliefs as my husband and me, and can fit into our relationship. I'm starting to get very frustrated. So then I venture back to just dating the random men who have no desire to learn what polyamory or an open marriage even mean, but are just into it for a fun time. That serves no good purpose other than to frustrate me. Ugh I'm just so frustrated-- I wanted to vent for a bit! Thanks for reading.
I'm finding that most people in my area who believe in polyamory are not my type. No offense, but I have found a lot to be very spiritual, Wiccan, earthy, long-haired vegetarian types, where I prefer more of a rough and tough, football-loving, bald-headed, manly-man type. Four years and I have yet to find someone that has the same beliefs as my husband and me, and can fit into our relationship. I'm starting to get very frustrated. So then I venture back to just dating the random men who have no desire to learn what polyamory or an open marriage even mean, but are just into it for a fun time. That serves no good purpose other than to frustrate me. Ugh I'm just so frustrated-- I wanted to vent for a bit! Thanks for reading.
My Mono is a military man. Okay, he's not poly, but he at least is doing okay in a poly dynamic! Keep at it. There is someone, or someones, out there for you!!!