Hi all,
My name is Jack. I’m 67 and have been in two separate threesomes with the same primary partner. Neither lasted very long, I’m afraid. I’m really into the poly lifestyle, but not so much the other guys I’ve been involved with. Still, this relationship lasted 19 years with just the two of us, so I guess that’s better than most guys get.
The first relationship was when I was “kind of” seeing this one guy, but he was a bottom, and me being a bottom, tried to make it work, but was getting ready to bow out of the relationship when I met “John”. He met the guy I was dating and the two of them came to me about trying a threesome. I said OK, and we were together about a year. I guess the biggest problem was that the two of them couldn’t seem to talk to each other, so every time there was a problem they would both come to me and complain about the other. Finally, it became evident that this couldn’t continue, and since I was not going to stay with Contestant #1, I chose John.
Skip forward many years. John had been diagnosed with AIDS since we first met, and we were very careful. But being a top, John wanted someone he could indulge with that unprotected. So, we met Candidate #2 and gave it a try. I don’t think they ever satisfied those urges with each other much, and #2 liked MJ way back before it was anything close to legal. I didn’t really care, but one time he got a batch laced with PCP and was arrested for walking around the neighborhood naked telling everyone he was Jesus. So that ended that second attempt.
Eventually John left me, and I did my best to remain friends. Skip forward many years again, and now I’m with “Mark” who is a confessed Pansexual who is much younger than I am. I’m now 67 and we’ve been together for 7 years. But he won’t have sex with me, saying he wants to wait until we are married. Problem is that I’m in a domestic partnership with John and I don’t have the money to have a “divorce” in California. He recently broke up with me as well, and I’m contemplating my future. I don’t know if we might get back together at this point or not. All I really know is that I’m not happy with my life right now.
I guess I’m tired of meeting men who can’t seem to make me the #1 in their lives. I’m tired of being able to do whatever I want as long as I do it by myself. I’m tired of emotional detachment. And I’m tired of never having sex. I mean, mismatched libidos are probably common, but I would really love to “get some” without having to search out someone else to fulfill that part of my life.
I recently retired as an IT Professional and moved from LA to a smaller town in SW New York state. I have been thinking of moving back to San Diego, and would like to meet guys who reside there, or would like to work with me to move there together. I’m a total bottom so I need to be with a guy or guys who is/are a top/tops. I can’t top so I would hate to be with a vers whom I can’t satiate. Now I dedicate myself to my other pursuits as amateur author (with several sci-fi novels available on Kindle), librettist, and lyricist. I have written a gay-themed musical, Lube: A Modern Love Story, It's kind of a cross between Grease and Glee set in 2014 at a high school in Amarillo Texas. My plans for production were interrupted by COVID a few years ago, and now I hope to launch a stage play, a web series, a TV show, or a movie. Anyone who thinks they could help with this would be a welcome addition to the family!!
My profile gives everyone my specifics, so I won’t go into them here. I would love to create a poly relationship or join an existing couple or throuple, etc. I don’t know if #2 would like to join us or not, but keep in mind it’s at least a possibility. I really want someone who is kind, considerate, dependable, and supportive. I want someone who actually wants to do the things I like to do with me, as I would love to do the things he/they like to do. I’m HIV-, on Prep, and tested regularly. I’m vaccinated for COVID but not for MP. I’m a little reserved, but once I get to know people, I can be much more animated. I’m open to chatting, but there are SO MANY scammers out there. I won’t commit or go too far into any potential relationship without actually meeting in person, and I will NOT send money to anyone for any reason.
If you’d like to get to know me better, drop me a line. Not that I’m really tied up on appearances, but please have pics available. I will search for these pics through Google, and if all you can send are publicly available pics, I won’t continue the conversation. I’ve never been with a woman and have no interest in that, so females please don’t contact me. The pics don’t have to be X-rated, but they need to be current and actually of you. I’m happy to answer any questions you may have about myself, although anything too intimate too soon may be deferred until we can get to know one another better.
My name is Jack. I’m 67 and have been in two separate threesomes with the same primary partner. Neither lasted very long, I’m afraid. I’m really into the poly lifestyle, but not so much the other guys I’ve been involved with. Still, this relationship lasted 19 years with just the two of us, so I guess that’s better than most guys get.
The first relationship was when I was “kind of” seeing this one guy, but he was a bottom, and me being a bottom, tried to make it work, but was getting ready to bow out of the relationship when I met “John”. He met the guy I was dating and the two of them came to me about trying a threesome. I said OK, and we were together about a year. I guess the biggest problem was that the two of them couldn’t seem to talk to each other, so every time there was a problem they would both come to me and complain about the other. Finally, it became evident that this couldn’t continue, and since I was not going to stay with Contestant #1, I chose John.
Skip forward many years. John had been diagnosed with AIDS since we first met, and we were very careful. But being a top, John wanted someone he could indulge with that unprotected. So, we met Candidate #2 and gave it a try. I don’t think they ever satisfied those urges with each other much, and #2 liked MJ way back before it was anything close to legal. I didn’t really care, but one time he got a batch laced with PCP and was arrested for walking around the neighborhood naked telling everyone he was Jesus. So that ended that second attempt.
Eventually John left me, and I did my best to remain friends. Skip forward many years again, and now I’m with “Mark” who is a confessed Pansexual who is much younger than I am. I’m now 67 and we’ve been together for 7 years. But he won’t have sex with me, saying he wants to wait until we are married. Problem is that I’m in a domestic partnership with John and I don’t have the money to have a “divorce” in California. He recently broke up with me as well, and I’m contemplating my future. I don’t know if we might get back together at this point or not. All I really know is that I’m not happy with my life right now.
I guess I’m tired of meeting men who can’t seem to make me the #1 in their lives. I’m tired of being able to do whatever I want as long as I do it by myself. I’m tired of emotional detachment. And I’m tired of never having sex. I mean, mismatched libidos are probably common, but I would really love to “get some” without having to search out someone else to fulfill that part of my life.
I recently retired as an IT Professional and moved from LA to a smaller town in SW New York state. I have been thinking of moving back to San Diego, and would like to meet guys who reside there, or would like to work with me to move there together. I’m a total bottom so I need to be with a guy or guys who is/are a top/tops. I can’t top so I would hate to be with a vers whom I can’t satiate. Now I dedicate myself to my other pursuits as amateur author (with several sci-fi novels available on Kindle), librettist, and lyricist. I have written a gay-themed musical, Lube: A Modern Love Story, It's kind of a cross between Grease and Glee set in 2014 at a high school in Amarillo Texas. My plans for production were interrupted by COVID a few years ago, and now I hope to launch a stage play, a web series, a TV show, or a movie. Anyone who thinks they could help with this would be a welcome addition to the family!!
My profile gives everyone my specifics, so I won’t go into them here. I would love to create a poly relationship or join an existing couple or throuple, etc. I don’t know if #2 would like to join us or not, but keep in mind it’s at least a possibility. I really want someone who is kind, considerate, dependable, and supportive. I want someone who actually wants to do the things I like to do with me, as I would love to do the things he/they like to do. I’m HIV-, on Prep, and tested regularly. I’m vaccinated for COVID but not for MP. I’m a little reserved, but once I get to know people, I can be much more animated. I’m open to chatting, but there are SO MANY scammers out there. I won’t commit or go too far into any potential relationship without actually meeting in person, and I will NOT send money to anyone for any reason.
If you’d like to get to know me better, drop me a line. Not that I’m really tied up on appearances, but please have pics available. I will search for these pics through Google, and if all you can send are publicly available pics, I won’t continue the conversation. I’ve never been with a woman and have no interest in that, so females please don’t contact me. The pics don’t have to be X-rated, but they need to be current and actually of you. I’m happy to answer any questions you may have about myself, although anything too intimate too soon may be deferred until we can get to know one another better.
