Is this really how my day is starting?

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lisa6

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My husband is ultra pissed at me because I have him a sweatshirt to wear and it will be 78F today.. He is having a cow.. you would think I committed the crime of the century.. is this what marriage looks like 22 years later? Is it me or is this not a high crime?
 
My husbands behave like grown men not spoiled children and pick their own clothes.

Is there somethingbelse brewing bigger than a sweatshirt that is setting him off?
 
I am not sure...I hate when he knit picks.. it was my fault.. I was tired and didn't do the laundry so there were no short sleeves shirts.. but should he kill me over it ? I don't think so..

For me there are bigger issues... he comes home every nite hops in bed and plays video games til he goes to sleep.. I ask him over and over to please put the phone down.. he never does..

And than there is sex... he never initiates.. his sex drive is very low and I feel rejected..

So for me Iam pretty unhappy
 
Actually I think lately I have been depressed.. with him playing video games all the time and lack of sex drive I feel rejected..

We are in a relationship a triad with girlfriend.. Nobody even sent me a morning text. 2 partners and I still can't get a good morning text..

Bad day
 
Hi lisa6,

Sorry to hear you're having a rotten day, I hope it gets better. As for the clothing issue, maybe your husband needs a bigger supply of short-sleeved shirts ... or maybe, he should take a turn doing laundry if you get tired. Also it sounds like you would like him to initiate sex sometimes. And text you.

Just some thoughts
Sincerely,
Kevin T.
 
Making a mountain out of a molehill is usually indicative of a problem, which may or may not have anything to do with you.
 
Thanks everyone .. he has been a bit under stress lately although I don't think that explains it all
 
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