So we meet me and my current wife when she was 16 and I was 18 both our parents took their turns trying to pry us apart. When she turned 17 I picked her up and got her her own appointment. When I was 21 and she was 18 we got married. We have been together for 6 years married for four. We at one point became homeless and she stuck by my side till we got back on our feet. We have had a place for almost two years now. A few times I had mentioned a open relationship and she would shoot it down. At one point said that if she had sex with another person she would fall for them (keep in mind we were each other’s first and only) one day she after about a couple months of us talking about it we opened our marriage. She was going to meet a guy for the first date and told me she was not gonna have sex. A few hrs later she asked me to and I said yes. She had sex with him a few times. Then one night she slept over and it all changed she got very cold and would pull away from me and not want me to touch her. So we talked and she agreed she would not sleep over for a while. All seemed well. Then three days later while I was at work she texts me that she is gonna be with him and get drunk and sleep over. She then turns off her location a rule we both followed and choose to ignore the rule about checking in every few hours so I knew she was ok. She does not contact me for 20 hours when I finally get a hold of her she yells at me and says we said we were gonna do this for 3 months and that she can do what she wants. I ask her to come home so we can talk and she says no. When she does come home she tells me that after three weeks of knowing this guy she has decided that she wants a divorce. I do the normal thing and break down very upset sobbing like i have never before telling her and begging her for us to work on our marriage. She says no. So I let her live here for a few weeks but sleep on the couch. At some point I get tired of hearing how he thinks she’s tastes good and how he loves her blow jobs and how he thinks she’s a good kisser. I also get tired of hearing how she’s getting a new job a hour away from here and how she’s gonna live with the guy. I then kick her out. She goes to him and he tells her he can’t move out cause when he moves out of his parents house he can’t go back if he fails. He also tells her he wants his ex back that cheated on him for 6 months. When this happens she decides to go on Craigslist (which is something I would not even do) and find room mates in one of the most violent towns in the state.
Part of me thinks about forgiving her but the other part does not think I want this person back. I don’t know how it took only 3 weeks for this to blow up so fast.
Part of me thinks about forgiving her but the other part does not think I want this person back. I don’t know how it took only 3 weeks for this to blow up so fast.
