Hi All, I'm Julie and I've been poly for 10 years. I've been married for 18 years (20 years together) and I've been with my boyfriend for 10 years. I was registered on this forum in my early years of being poly but I had to register again. Maybe because I was inactive for a few years, life got in the way and unfortunately time is not an infinite resource! I'm not in a closet but I'm not out either. I usually don't tell people but I don't hide it either. I told some people when I saw it fitting in the conversation, especially when someone starts talking about their own relationship issues (like cheating husband or dating a married man without knowing he was married). People are usually surprised and don't expect this from me.