LDR: Finally meeting!
- Thread starter Castress
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You don't have to ask me twice!
So I met this gentleman almost a year ago while I was out with friends at a munch. The moment he walked in I couldn't help but smile. I leaned over to a friend of mine just to tell them how cute I thought he was. I noticed his wedding ring, so I held back from hitting on him that night. (Normally I don't really do that anyway.)
To make a long story short, later down the line I found out he was poly. He mentioned it at one of the munches I go to. GAME ON!
We flirted a bit. OKay, more than a bit. So, my birthday was last month and I just had to invite him. I am so thankful I did! We went out to one of my favorite restaurants. It was me, him and just some close friends. Well, I don't normally drink all too much. However, it was my birthday, I was out celebrating with friends, and there was some drink specials.
Anyway, after a few drinks I got the courage to just be very blunt with him. Tell him how hot he was and that I wanted to bring him home with me. I was expecting a no, but that was not what happened. He looked me dead in the eyes, smiled and said okay. I still didn't think he was serious but he did come home with me.
My plan was very innocent, I swear! I wanted to bring him home, cuddle and go to sleep. However we were up all night, basically flirting but mostly just talking into the next night. Eventually he asked me out.
So that's how we got together. We were already good friends. We use to play a game night twice a month and go to munches and stuff and see each other. Now, I can call him mine. We are going on our second date next week. The first one was wonderful, he planned it out. Brought me out to ice cream and to longhorn. (MY favorite chain restaurant) So it was pleasant and we kind of stayed in the car talking for hours again. I can only assume that will probably happen again since I haven't gotten to see him in a few weeks.
Great thing about this is he keeps contact with me. We have great communication AND he doesn't live a million miles away. It doesn't hurt that he is very easy on the eyes.
FallenAngelina
Well-known member
Sounds wonderful, Castress. You got a lot out of the other people, in that you really know what to zero in on and value with Mr. New Guy. All of the "talking into the night" is a great foundation for something very, very good. Happy for you!
Yeah, I always believe communication is key. Plus, if I can't have a decent conversation with the person, why bother?
So, I didn't get to update. I broke up with the jerk. I made it very clear we were not together anymore. I than took him off everything. Thanks for all the advice guys.
Now onto some better news, because who doesn't like good news anyway? I stayed with the new guy at his house with his wife. Our date didn't go as planned, but the night was amazing. I feel soooo lucky right now!
Now onto some better news, because who doesn't like good news anyway? I stayed with the new guy at his house with his wife. Our date didn't go as planned, but the night was amazing. I feel soooo lucky right now!
And even better news, maybe I should make a new thread?
Anyway, so the new guy and I have been dating a month. I've been hanging out with his wife a lot. We kind of just clicked. Which normally does NOT happen. To make a long story short she asked me out. I am feeling super happy and a bit overwhelmed at the same time. I am having a bunch of emotions and not all that I am familiar with. I am happy, overjoyed even, but I don't feel entirely confident? Like I am going to cross some line. We discussed this together and it seems like there isn't much I could do to really 'cross the line' per say but I still have that weird feeling if that makes any sense.
Me and her will be having our first real date in a few weeks. I can't help but smile and giggle when I am around the two of them.
Anyway, so the new guy and I have been dating a month. I've been hanging out with his wife a lot. We kind of just clicked. Which normally does NOT happen. To make a long story short she asked me out. I am feeling super happy and a bit overwhelmed at the same time. I am having a bunch of emotions and not all that I am familiar with. I am happy, overjoyed even, but I don't feel entirely confident? Like I am going to cross some line. We discussed this together and it seems like there isn't much I could do to really 'cross the line' per say but I still have that weird feeling if that makes any sense.
Me and her will be having our first real date in a few weeks. I can't help but smile and giggle when I am around the two of them.
I think I am going to give it a shot. My new guy is okay with it, maybe even happy about it really. It's just so new to all of us, as I have never dated both members of a married couple.