Never mind the marriage part. I can't believe she was in a love relationship with both you and Sam, and you thought he was your roommate, and he thought you were just the husband of her friend Rene-- for almost 3 years! What the fuck!?
Never mind you seem to think it's OK she "dated you" up until she was engaged and married, while not letting her bf/fiance know. I think it's unethical she was dating both of you without telling either about the other guy, all along! Three years!
I'm not a huge fan of marriage. I think even if you're "just dating," it's just as important to be open about who else you are fucking to all your partners. You thought she was mono with you? Sam thought she was mono with him? I can't help but wonder, did she have other sex partners as well, that just haven't come out of the woodwork yet...
Go get yourself tested for STDs. Even if you used condoms religiously, they aren't foolproof, and who knows what she was spreading around?
God, her poor daughter. And now her "new" husband believes YOU are the pathological liar? Ugh. But your wife knows the truth. She can tell Sam and Hannah, she knew you and Mel were having sex and carrying on a love affair when Mel lied and said she was just visiting her platonic female friend. She must feel used too!
God, what a mess! I am so sorry you were so hoodwinked. And now YOUR honor and honesty is being questioned! It is truly disgusting.
Never mind you seem to think it's OK she "dated you" up until she was engaged and married, while not letting her bf/fiance know. I think it's unethical she was dating both of you without telling either about the other guy, all along! Three years!
I'm not a huge fan of marriage. I think even if you're "just dating," it's just as important to be open about who else you are fucking to all your partners. You thought she was mono with you? Sam thought she was mono with him? I can't help but wonder, did she have other sex partners as well, that just haven't come out of the woodwork yet...
Go get yourself tested for STDs. Even if you used condoms religiously, they aren't foolproof, and who knows what she was spreading around?
God, her poor daughter. And now her "new" husband believes YOU are the pathological liar? Ugh. But your wife knows the truth. She can tell Sam and Hannah, she knew you and Mel were having sex and carrying on a love affair when Mel lied and said she was just visiting her platonic female friend. She must feel used too!
God, what a mess! I am so sorry you were so hoodwinked. And now YOUR honor and honesty is being questioned! It is truly disgusting.