Greeting All. My name is John and I am in a relationship with a woman who I love to the moon and back. We are not maybe poly in the purist sense but we are not sexually monogamous. We are swingers and had/have close friendships with a sexual dimension with others. The way I see the love and relationships don't fit neatly into a few isolated boxes. Love to me is more a spectrum where the divides can be a little burled. She sees things the same. But theory aside the reality is the nature, honest and open communication in our relationship is freeing and liberating but it is also very hard work sometime. Just looking for advice, support and tools to navigate through the pit fall of this game as we are both new to it. So that is why I have joined.
Life is not one size fits all.
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Greetings John,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.
It's cool that you have joined us, I think you will find many opportunities to get advice and feedback. Check out our Poly Relationships Corner and General Poly Discussions, they are active boards and you can find (and post) a lot of new stuff there.
Enjoy your stay!
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"
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Welcome aboard!
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.
It's cool that you have joined us, I think you will find many opportunities to get advice and feedback. Check out our Poly Relationships Corner and General Poly Discussions, they are active boards and you can find (and post) a lot of new stuff there.
Enjoy your stay!
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"
Notes:
There's a *lot* of good info in Golden Nuggets. Have a look!
Please read through the guidelines if you haven't already.
Note: You needn't read every reply to your posts, especially if someone posts in a disagreeable way. Given the size and scope of the site it's hard not to run into the occasional disagreeable person. Please contact the mods if you do (or if you see any spam), and you can block the person if you want.
If you have any questions about the board itself, please private-message a mod and they'll do their best to help.
Welcome aboard!
Al99
Well-known member
Hi John - and welcome to the Forum! It is often said that the line between swinging and poly can get very fuzzy when feelings start to develop with play partners. We will look forward to hearing more of your story.
Yep - ain't it the truth? We do have have a number of experienced poly folks here on the Forum who are generally helpful and friendly, so please do not hesitate to post any specific thoughts and questions that you may have.
Best of luck on your journey! Al
Yep - ain't it the truth?
We do have have a number of experienced poly folks here on the Forum who are generally helpful and friendly, so please do not hesitate to post any specific thoughts and questions that you may have. Best of luck on your journey! Al