Hi this is my first post. Not sure how it goes. My husband has never been involved with this type of thing but i have. Its always been a fantasy for him n i want to make it happen. I personally love the assion that another woman can give me but not sure how to go about finding the right one. If youve been where im at please give us some advice. We want to do it right and dont want anyone to get hurt by getting too involved. Were deeply in lovr and just want to take this step now.please help us fulfill our fantasy
looking for poly female
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Greetings cooper,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.
First, I recommend you post an ad on our Dating & Friendships subforum, and look for other ads by people in your vicinity.
Next, there's a few poly-friendly dating sites you can consider:
And sometimes it helps to join a live local poly group in your area. Some links to help you find such a group are:
But don't just look for the right woman; take some time to explore Polyamory.com and interact with us on our various threads and boards. There's a lot of important stuff to be learned here.
Glad you could join us.
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"
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Welcome aboard!
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.
First, I recommend you post an ad on our Dating & Friendships subforum, and look for other ads by people in your vicinity.
Next, there's a few poly-friendly dating sites you can consider:
And sometimes it helps to join a live local poly group in your area. Some links to help you find such a group are:
- https://fetlife.com/
- http://www.facebook.com/
- http://www.polygroups.com/
- http://polyamory.meetup.com/
- http://www.polyamory.org/SF/groups.html
- http://polyevents.blogspot.com/#localgroups
- http://openingup.net/resources/local-orginizations-u-s/
- http://openingup.net/resources/international-organizations-outside-the-u-s/
- http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?p=83656#post83656
But don't just look for the right woman; take some time to explore Polyamory.com and interact with us on our various threads and boards. There's a lot of important stuff to be learned here.
Glad you could join us.
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"
Notes:
There's a *lot* of good info in Golden Nuggets. Have a look!
Please read through the guidelines if you haven't already.
Note: You needn't read every reply to your posts, especially if someone posts in a disagreeable way. Given the size and scope of the site it's hard not to run into the occasional disagreeable person. Please contact the mods if you do (or if you see any spam), and you can block the person if you want.
If you have any questions about the board itself, please private-message a mod and they'll do their best to help.
Welcome aboard!
GreenAcres
New member
Cooper, you guys might have much better luck in a swinger community/setting. In Polyamory, the expectation is often of a relationship, while in swinging, it's usually just sex. There are exceptions going both ways, of course, but if you two are just looking for a MFF threesome, I can almost guarantee you'll find a much better pool of candidates who are more in line with what you're looking for at a swinger's club/bar/site/retreat.
GreenAcres
New member
Also, you might try expanding your view of this. Because, even in swinging, the person you bring into your bed is also a person, not just a sex toy/non-entity. So, consider looking at it as fulfilling *everyone's* fantasies, not just you two as a couple. That's fairly off-putting to most single females who are into couples. There are a goodly number of them on swinger sites, but they can afford to be super choosy since they're the most sought-after demographic; so, presenting a genuine attitude of caring about their fantasies, and treating them as people, will help.