Looking for someone who would be willing to talk

[leslie]

HI!
I am wondering if anyone out there who is experienced, or sort of experienced with poly would be willing to talk to me.
The situation is that I sometimes have strong feelings of insecurity and doubt about poly, and it has become hard for my husband to listen to my fears.
He feels that I am not really listening to his needs because mine seem-bigger and I talk about them more.
I understand that he feels this way, and he is often right, that my concerns seem to take precident over his..
I would like to be able to work through some of my issues, but it really needs to be with someone other than him, so he is not perpetually listening to my 'stuff"
I am committed to working through my issues, and we love each other dearly,
I just need a support group or community so that he isn't constantly burdened with my emotional ups and downs
any ideas? Live in Seattle

 

[kdt26417]

Hi leslie,

If you live in Seattle you're in luck; Seattle is tied with Portland for like, most poly-friendly city in the world. I believe the city has several (at least five?) local poly groups, so you can kind of pick and choose. Google "Seattle polyamory" and see what comes up.

In the meantime, I'm happy to talk to you on this thread, and others probably are too ... and if you would prefer, you can also message me privately.

Sorry to hear you are running into some insecurity and doubt.
Sincerely,
Kevin T.