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joeyhovercraft

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Looking for friends who are in a similar situation as me. My husband is Poly (didn’t find out until 2 years invested in our relationship). There are aspects that I love about it and hate about it. He recently broke up with his GF (I think she ended it), but I’m not sure if I can go through this again if/when he finds a new relationship. It’s a bit of a generalization to call our relationship complicated, but would love to connect with anyone who is interested in listening.
 
That's a tough situation to be caught up in and I'm sorry you're going through it. My DMs are open if you want to message me privately.
 
I'm in a similar situation. Boyfriend of almost a year is a dedicated polyamorist, I'm more monogam-ish and struggle with wanting more of him. His secondary just dumped him, and now I'm thinking of doing similarly as I don't want to have to go through seeing him fall for the next woman, and the next. It all feels so destabilizing. Let me see if I can figure out how to DM ya...
 
I'm sort of in a similar situation, where my bf of two years has recently identified as poly and we're discussing him having other relationships in the future...I'd love to talk to you all
 
Hello joeyhovercraft,

I sympathize with you about your situation, you are having second thoughts about poly, it's hard to do, I know, especially so early in the story, those are the hardest years in poly relationships. Don't give up, hang in there as I see you coming out on top after all. Keep trying.

Regards,
Kevin T.
 
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