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I looked at your other thread, and responded there briefly. Basically, my two points were that you may be able to have a mono/poly marriage, but regardless of whether that's possible, you do need to redefine yourself (and perhaps you already have), and that is okay. I hope Polyamory.com has helped you figure things out some, and I hope we will continue to be able to do so. Don't hesitate to ask us any questions you may have.
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