I'm here for my first time, if I'm totally honest I started to read and look into poly because the idea was put to me, yes I think alot of my man and at first I was angry, I'm 50 and he's 30, so there is a difference in ideas about relationships already, I was hurt cried and felt rejection, was it me? could i not satisfy him enough?....no!! none of that, my thoughts then changed, what if he was cheating....would I want to know would I want the choice to walk away, preserve my self respect and dignity. We all have a choice it's how we use it, I've read about empowerment, I'm empowered I choose to learn and embrace polyamory, yes I'm just starting, but my choice will always be mine.
