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Inyoendo

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Hello you might remember me from my posts Tales from the Time Share Wife | Polyamory lots of drama and whatnot that we worked through. I thought at some point that he was a psychopath but turns out he just has Audhd and an avoidant attachment style. After our son was born 6 years ago he was an amazing partner and in 2019 when he wanted to buy a house I did all the work for approval and making sure we got the house that we wanted. Everything was going great for a long time but 12/2022 he asked to break up then he asked to take a break then he asked to open the relationship (which he was always anti poly). It turns out my new friend Ally (the chick he screwed at the haunted house back in 2014) was someone he was seeing and messaging behind my back (9/22-12/22 and he had fallen in love with her again. he blamed it on a head injury

At first i was upset but she had been telling me she wanted me to be her girlfriend and i thought she was fun and cute and she wanted both of us so we decided to be a throuple. It was hard at first because she would have him come up to her apartment for dates, sleepovers, sex and I was not. She definitely didn’t like me and acted very jealous and because she has bpd and possibly autism she acted out by silent treatment or complaining to him which hurt me when he would pick fights with me when I didn't do anything wrong. A year after our official anniversary broke up with her because she had hurt my feelings too many times and had been shit talking both of us online (as well as her exes) anytime that she got mad.

Fast forward to last week they broke up because she had been pulling away and giving silent treatment or just being rude in general. Then today he dumped me because i posted on facebook our plans for the empty bedrooms that she was using and she posted that we are abusers making her move i 6 weeks. and told me that he wants to be a womanizer. So that’s that. I gave him a baby, got him a house, started a business all for his happiness then he dumped me. I won't take him back, he changed his status on facebook and made it official. I hope they get back together because they deserve each other.
 
Welcome back! Sorry you've had such a hell of a time with him (and her).
 
Thank you. Well I guess they won't be getting back together. Shes been having a DL affair with our friend and another friend sent sceeenshots of the conversation talking about it. He's having some kind of mental crisis right now and his feelings are so big he doesn't know how to handle it.

She told him she has been fantasizing about stabbing us too so idk if he's going to get the police involved to get her out of the house or what.
 
Inyoendo said:
Thank you. Well I guess they won't be getting back together. Shes been having a DL affair with our friend and another friend sent sceeenshots of the conversation talking about it. He's having some kind of mental crisis right now and his feelings are so big he doesn't know how to handle it.

She told him she has been fantasizing about stabbing us too so idk if he's going to get the police involved to get her out of the house or what.
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uhhhhhhhh...... ummmm.... .....

..... uhhh.. yes cops. yes change locks.. jesus
 
He decided he doesn't want to go home. He's Been staying at A friends house.. i asked him if they hooked up before we were together and he confirmed thay they did indeed cheat. No big shocker there she made or clear from the beginning she only wanted him. I don't feel bad about his heartache. I talked to her ex and he confirmed that she was talking to him when she was with her ex. So she gets with dudes, lines up the next one then cheats and leaves after boundaries are put in place. She kept telling people how she's never cheated 🤣🤣🤣

I'm glad she did this to him, he knows how I feel
 
He's going to tell me the truth about how they came together. The whole thing. I told.him I have been sleeping with my husband since he had a girlfriend I told him I was getting a lover too. He asked if we'd stayed together if I would have told him I said he told me the truth so I felt like I could be honest with him. I told him I wasn't going to wait for him and he asked for some time. He wants to see where we are at in January but he doesn't want to be monogamous with is fine. I just hate that he attracts unhealthy people and loses his mind over them. He's getting on meds, I hope they help. She didn't like the post I made but I'm allowed to defend myself from the things that she's saying. Shes lied to everyone all along making me out to be the bad guy for thinking she was a cowgirl. Shes worse than crystal and that's saying a lot .
 
Just to clarify...the "he" in all of this is Sam? And things are all good with Nate?
 
Yes nate is still seeing multiple people and I stay there during the week and with sam weekends. He works non-thur ovn so it works out.

Sam is doing something tonight he didn't want to tell me. It made me sad and feel jealous that he's likely on a date with someone. I am respecting his boundaries by not asking or acting upon my emotions.
 
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