New... confused... lost

Also, PS:

Triads are really hard to do! It is rare that all three members have the same degree of love and lust for each other in equal intensity.

Sometimes triads that start with (perhaps drunken) sex, can go along OK for a few weeks or months, but then one of the lovers will find she is really more into one person than the other. This leads to hurt feelings for the rejected lover. But with patience and care, sometimes a failed triad can become a successful V. Maybe your gf was only into the FF sex for the novelty of it, but now, while still loving you platonically, she finds she really has more lust for your bf.

And of course, your bf is excited to be having sex with a new person after 2 years with you. But hopefully he will come back to earth after your new discussions. I wish you the best.
 
So here is update. I talked with both and some soul searching of myself. We have agreed to work on schedules to include time for all three of us....me and her...her and him.... him and and me and all three of us. I understand that relationships in general are hard to make work but I think if all three of us puts in effort I think we can make it work. I really like idea of using the Google chat thing. I am really glad I came on here and was able to read about how other polys have made it work. It has inspired me...we.... :)
 
I'm glad to have helped in some way. It really is a great way to keep everyone talking. Especially with the divergent schedules. Best of luck to the three of you.
 
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