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loveartist

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I'm a 26-year-old living in southern California, and polyamory as a full on way of life is relatively new for me.

My husband and I had felt since we met that because of our desire for physical intimacy, excitement and growth that we'd always be headed in that direction, we just didn't feel we were ready for it.

Suddenly we were unable to meet all each other's needs, and because of how quickly the realization has come about, our journey into polyamory has been one fraught with confusion and conflict sometimes.

It's my hope that we'll come out of it happy and functional on the other side, because we love each other and want to raise our children together.

Looking forward to looking around. :)
 
Greetings loveartist,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

I hope you'll find the wisdom and feedback you need here. There is a lot of collective experience to tap into, so your chances are good. I myself will be following this intro thread so you can ping me here anytime.

Usually "slow is good" when moving into a poly model of living, so if you went fast it's not too surprising if you found yourself disoriented. Take a deep breath, and give yourself some time to learn some of the stuff that other people have learned.

I wish you the very best.
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter" :)

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Welcome aboard!
 
Welcome! Glad to see another resident of Southern California here!
 
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