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Hello all. My wife and I just started discussing a poly relationship.

After searching a bit I came across these forums. I hope learn a lot and keep any future relationships fair for everyone involved.
 
Hi Randomaccess9999 - Welcome to the Forum! I came here several months ago when my wife asked me to open our marriage so she could explore her resurgent feelings about an old college boyfriend. Participating in this forum has been very helpful to me in making the adjustment to poly. I have found most of the folks here to be friendly and helpful with lots of sound advice and solid info. Again, welcome and best of luck on your poly journey. Al
 
Welcome Random!

There is much to learn here. I recommend just doodling about and reading whatever seems interesting to you. There is also search functions if you have more specific concerns you want to read about.

One immediate food for thought: fair is sometimes toxic. It is very hard to be truly fair in a relationship, much less multiple ones. Sometimes the effort to be fair can lead to not meeting anyone's needs. Consider instead re-framing your quest from being fair to doing your best to meet your partner's needs.

Best of luck!
 
Greetings Randomaccess9999,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

It sounds like you have the right idea, you know what you want to accomplish in a poly relationship. Have a look around and see what calls to you. Post if you have any questions.

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter" :)

Notes:

There's a *lot* of good info in Golden Nuggets. Have a look!

Please read through the guidelines if you haven't already.

Note: You needn't read every reply to your posts, especially if someone posts in a disagreeable way. Given the size and scope of the site it's hard not to run into the occasional disagreeable person. Please contact the mods if you do (or if you see any spam), and you can block the person if you want.

If you have any questions about the board itself, please private-message a mod and they'll do their best to help.

Welcome aboard!
 
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