New Irish Couple moving to Poly.. lol then to the US

[DarcynBeth]

Hi guys we all very new to this. But wanted to reach out and find people who are of sane mind add us and perhaps learn a little from them about the poly life.
We've recently opened up but learned some things the hard way.. we're also considering a move to the US in the next year and leaving 'Old' Ireland behind.

So if anyone had any thoughts get back to us (me)

 

[Spork]

I don't know what part of the US you're considering, but if you came here to Colorado, you wouldn't be the only polyfolk from Ireland that I know!

What the poly life looks like varies an awful lot from one person/relationship/family/whatever to the next. Some pitfalls and difficulties are common, but I don't think that any two successful, happy polycules look alike.

So. Depending on what region of the US you're thinking of, I might have some things to tell you about that (I have lived in several places for periods of time.) And depending on what sort of poly style you are considering trying to do, I might have some things to say about that, too. Whether they help or they don't is open to your own interpretation. Best wishes!

 

[kdt26417]

Greetings DarcynBeth,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

I'm curious, how did you come to the decision to move to the United States? From what I hear, Ireland is one of the best places to live. Anyway, wherever you live, Polyamory.com will be there for you. I don't know how sane we are but we're friendly.

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"

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