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cuck49ult

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Hi,

I am a 49 yr-old cuckold. Maybe it would be better to say that he was also a cuckold, because at the beginning it was just typical cuckoldry, and more and more domination by my wife.

I'm glad I found this forum. My wife had been preparing me for this role for a long time and I didn't even know it. I hadn't had sex for a long time with my wife. Finally, after two years, she told me that she had someone and that she loved him. At first I was very shocked. I didn't know what to do or say.

She told me straight that she didn't want to have sex with me, that she only wanted to be with him and wanted me to accept that. I quickly agreed and today it's fine. It's been 15 years since I've been completely pussy free, but I'm happy with it. She gave birth to his child. I'm officially the father, and I support the family.

When she told me that she loved him and that she wanted to be his wife, I reacted very quickly and strongly to that impression and it stayed that way. We live discreetly in such a relationship. I accept it. Today I believe that it should be official and that every husband should accept it and not cause problems for his wife, just support and help.

Regards.
 
Hello cuck49ult,

It sounds like you have a good healthy cuckold (and submissive) relationship with your wife (or is she no longer your wife?), and the other guy is a part of that, and I take it he is submissive too? If you have any questions let us know, it's nice to have you as part of our forum.

Sincerely,
Kevin T.
 
kdt26417 said:
Hello cuck49ult,

It sounds like you have a good healthy cuckold (and submissive) relationship with your wife (or is she no longer your wife?), and the other guy is a part of that, and I take it he is submissive too? If you have any questions let us know, it's nice to have you as part of our forum.

Sincerely,
Kevin T.
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Do you think this is a good relationship on my part, I mean, that I agreed to it and gave up sex altogether? He is not submissive. They are both definitely dominant.
 
Ultimately, only you can decide if giving up sex was a good idea. It's a good idea if it works for you. If you're very submissive maybe you don't have much of a choice, right?
 
"She wanted me to accept it".

I mean, you've kind of gone along with it all this time, so this may seem a silly question. But does it feel like she's forcing you, that your input doesn't matter? Because even outside a poly situation, I know far too many people who just kind of go with the flow of their partner, despite not really being on the same page. That seems unlikely here, I just have some concern for you, due to the wording.
 
Arnick said:
"She wanted me to accept it".

I mean, you've kind of gone along with it all this time, so this may seem a silly question. But does it feel like she's forcing you, that your input doesn't matter? Because even outside a poly situation, I know far too many people who just kind of go with the flow of their partner, despite not really being on the same page. That seems unlikely here, I just have some concern for you, due to the wording.
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Maybe I wrote something imprecisely, but it's the language barrier, so...
 
If your happy, I’m happy for you.
 
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