Greetings PierrePoly,
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I looked up
your YouTube channel and found five uploads, the most recent was "
how to find a unicorn for couple," so I watched that. Hopefully I got the right one. (My apologies if I didn't.) It was just a static text video (19:23 min:sec), it said, "Are you a couple looking for another female or male to join your relationship? Comment below ... what, who, and why you looking for, your location. How to reach you, and good luck." As I am not looking for anyone, I didn't leave a comment, plus I figured I could leave a comment here (in this post/thread/forum).
- What: an MFM poly-fi V.
- Who: Kevin T., one of the male legs of that V.
- Why I'm looking: not looking at this time.
- My location: Yelm, Washington.
- How to reach me: message me privately on this forum, or address me in a post on this thread.
Just by the way of general information, I want to add that unicorn hunting isn't the only kind/configuration of poly, polyamory isn't
*defined as* unicorn hunting. That misconception is out there, so that's why I leave that qualifier here. I might also add that unicorn hunting usually means a (married, M/F) couple looking for a
*female* to join their relationship. M/F + F ... a triad (i.e., each person in the triad is romantically/sexually involved with both of the other two). The male is usually straight, while the females are both bi. So looking for a male
*or* female is actually a broader definition of unicorn hunting.
Unicorn hunting is wildly popular among monogamous couples who are looking to transition into polyamory, but among experienced polyamorists (such as what you'd find on this forum), it tends to be frowned upon, due to its many pitfalls. You can read more about these in the article,
So, someone called you a Unicorn Hunter? You may already know these things, I just mention them here for the sake of general info.
It's great to have you with us.
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"
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