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Hi! I just want to introduce myself! I'm a 34 year old male and basically looking for advice after my wife wants me to be polyamoristic and I'm not 100% sure. I posted my situation in another thread but not sure if it was the right place.

As a currently monogamous man please don't judge me. I just want to know what peoples experiences are and if it may be the right path for me as I am scared that I lose what I have with my wife. Any thoughts appreciated and its always nice to make new friends anyway. ☺

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Multicolouredcake
 
Well, what do you want, forget about her suggestion... what would you like?

Is there anyone other than your wife you are attracted to? It works both ways.
 
I am very attracted to some people but fear she may feel intimidated by the girls i would pick.

I very much understand your point though and it is something to discuss with her.

Thank you!
 
Welcome to the forum! I think I may have replied to your other post. Hopefully you'll find my and other people's responses useful in some way. The people here have been really supportive and insightful to me in the past, hope you find the same : )
 
Thank you notarobot! I don't think i saw the other post but you are right that people have been very supportive and friendly. It all helps towards me and my wife making an informed decision.
 
@Multicolouredcake: aaw : ) If you just replied to a thread and didn't create your own, I'd encourage you to make your own thread, provide some context + history, and see what people have to say. Maybe it will not be helpful, but I think likely something useful can be gleamed from the posts that will give you some new ways to contextualize or think about your current relationship.
 
Greetings Multicolouredcake,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

I read your other thread and responded there briefly. I think the key thing here is to take things slowly, with lots of communication with your wife along the way. We'll try to help here, too, of course.

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter" :)

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