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[rbr1977]

Hello all
My name is rbr and I am very new to this ( Poly ), Early 40s male and have been separated for approx 8 weeks after almost 20 yrs in a Mono Marriage with two teen Daughters. Separation has been a long time coming only one short term GF before marriage and Had a Threesome in my Late teens with two mates on a cruise The girl got all the attention ,
I lost love for wife along time ago and Kids kept family together not the best Scenario I know but here I am, I have been chatting with Two girls online long distance Early days but they are in a multi poly life with multiple other girls and one man they are many years younger in there mid 20's this was hurdle one but to me age is only a number and I have that chance to re live my 20's Im serious in making things work, They have opened my eyes To poly and I know I have love for more then one, I know i'm Poly I'm sure of that, prior to recent times I've Known nothing of it.
As i said it's Early day's and a meet is defianatley on the cards but not till Covid Ends So im in a real pickle, any constructive comments are more then welcome.
Thankyou In advance and I look forward to many constructive coments and conversations.

 

[kdt26417]

Greetings rbr1977,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

It sounds like you have recently discovered your poly side, and have met two poly girls but the Covid crisis is stopping you from exploring any further. I suggest you continue to chat with the two girls, if you cannot meet them in person, at least you can communicate with them and get to know them better. Meanwhile participate here as much as you can, learn more about poly and post any questions you may have. I'm glad you could join us!

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"

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