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Hetaera

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Hi Everyone, I new to the website & newish to poly. I just started an intense relationship with a married man (his wife of course knows we are together). It's one of the most honest & loving relationships I've ever had. I don't know if it's him, me, us, being poly or what.

I don't really get all the sex & companionship I want & worry about feeling left out as a secondary but so far it's great & I'm trying not to get to far ahead of myself. I could have another lover but I want to be exclusive right now at least. So glad this website exists.
 
Hi Hetaera,
Welcome to our forum.

I know another Hetaera from Polyamorous Percolations, so have we met (online) before? Regardless, I'm glad to have you aboard.

Being a secondary can be tough, but remember, you, too, as a secondary, have rights. http://www.morethantwo.com/polyforsecondaries.html#bor

Anyway, I hope this site will be enjoyable and useful to you. Lots to learn here.

Regards,
Kevin T.
 
I used that name a long time ago but I was never on that website though. I'm eventually going to have to meet with all 3 of us & let them know what I need/want/deserve. Thanks for the link. It's all pretty new so I want to enjoy the moment and tread carefully. I can totally stand up for my rights though!
 
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Sounds good. Let us know if there's any way we can help.
 
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