New with Questions - SC

Good Evening!

My name is Anna and I'm 28. I have been married for 6 years and have been struggling for the last year and a half with my marriage. I found this forum and started reading about Polyamory, and it makes sense to me now what I am missing in my life. My Husband currently does not know this is who I am and I'm not sure how or when to tell him. I'm looking for any support I can get throughout this, because I know it won't be easy. I'm not looking for anyone who is going to push me or make me come clean to him, just looking for support and hopefully find some people who truly understand where I am coming from and what I am going through.

I hope everyone has a wonderful evening!
 
Greetings Anna,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

I'll happily be one person who will support you, and I'm sure there'll be others here as well. If you have any particular questions, or need any particular advice, let us know. In the meantime I just hope Polyamory.com will be a good resource for you, check out our various threads and see what calls to you.

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter" :)

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Welcome aboard!
 
No need to rush into telling him. In fact it's good that you don't have a sense of urgency about it.

Welcome to the forum.
 
Welcome! Talking to your husband will be scary, so I would definitely put it off until you are clear in your own mind what you'd like to do with this information yourself. Read a lot and become secure in your knowledge, then broach the subject. :)
 
Congratulations! It did not take that long a time at all. Nice to hear that the initial discussion went well :) This is the starting point of many many more conversations. I hope it all turns out good for the both of you and any possible future partners!
 
So happy for you Anna! I hope things continue to go well with your husband.
 
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