Time to introduce myself 
I have been in a semi-long distance relationship with a polyamorous man for a little over a year.
Here's how it happened:
I am a slave in the BDSM lifestyle. I was looking for a master. I found one online. All I wanted at that time was a master, not necessarily a serious relationship. (How do you separate the two? Well, turns out I can’t. haha!) He lives just close enough to me to make get-togethers possible, but not close enough to allow for day-to-day, in-person interaction.
He explained right up front that he had a bisexual wife and girlfriend. They were a trio. Three-in-one.
But the girls weren't into BDSM and although they allowed him some mild BDSM play, neither of them could satisfy that deep, basic desire in him to be a true master and have a real slave. So his girlfriend encouraged him and helped him to look for a slave. And he found me.
That’s how it happened.
But he found me without his wife's knowledge. There was trouble in the relationship between him and his wife, and his wife and her/his girlfriend, and that didn't go over well.
He (let's call him Mufasa, because it's fun) told her about me prior to our first live meeting, but by this time his wife (Nancy, I'll say) and girlfriend's (Sally) relationship had soured and they had "broke up", and Nancy felt betrayed by them both and within a few months of our getting together she had first pressured Sally so hard that Sally moved out, and then Nancy moved out and filed for divorce.
I might have been the straw, but was certainly not the cause of their break up, and have been told by Mufasa and Sally and other friends of theirs that I should not feel like that break up was my fault. So I try not to feel guilty about that.
Anyway, Sally and Mufasa did NOT break up, but they lived apart for a year. Sally found another girlfriend, as well. And during that time, Mufasa and I spent quite a bit of time together, getting to know each other and I fell hard, deep in love with him. And he fell in love with me, too. I am no longer just a some-time slave, I am also his lover, friend and girlfriend.
Mufasa never, ever wavered in his love for Sally, in being with her as often as he could. He never knew a name for his lifestyle before I researched it and talked about it to him, he just knew he loved and had the capacity and desire to love more than one woman.
The waters of the break-ups settled, including Sally and her new girlfriend, because Sally’s girlfriend wanted Sally all to herself and Sally would not give up Mufasa. Sally moved back in with Mufasa just over a month ago.
I love Mufasa so very much, and want him to be happy. And I have grown to care for Sally, too. I am not bisexual, but have been with Sally sexually twice, to please Mufasa. It would be more, if Mufasa had his way, but Sally is not his slave, and so it’s completely up to her. She would rather be with a lesbian or bisexual woman, and I can’t say I blame her. I’m willing and able and enthusiastic, but not what she really wants or needs. But we like each other and are becoming friends.
I want for Mufasa to be happy, for Sally to be happy, and for me to be happy. So I started researching online about poly relationships. And now I feel the need to discuss and share, and commune with others like us.
So here I am.
Hi!
I have been in a semi-long distance relationship with a polyamorous man for a little over a year.
Here's how it happened:
I am a slave in the BDSM lifestyle. I was looking for a master. I found one online. All I wanted at that time was a master, not necessarily a serious relationship. (How do you separate the two? Well, turns out I can’t. haha!) He lives just close enough to me to make get-togethers possible, but not close enough to allow for day-to-day, in-person interaction.
He explained right up front that he had a bisexual wife and girlfriend. They were a trio. Three-in-one.
But the girls weren't into BDSM and although they allowed him some mild BDSM play, neither of them could satisfy that deep, basic desire in him to be a true master and have a real slave. So his girlfriend encouraged him and helped him to look for a slave. And he found me.
That’s how it happened.
But he found me without his wife's knowledge. There was trouble in the relationship between him and his wife, and his wife and her/his girlfriend, and that didn't go over well.
He (let's call him Mufasa, because it's fun) told her about me prior to our first live meeting, but by this time his wife (Nancy, I'll say) and girlfriend's (Sally) relationship had soured and they had "broke up", and Nancy felt betrayed by them both and within a few months of our getting together she had first pressured Sally so hard that Sally moved out, and then Nancy moved out and filed for divorce.
I might have been the straw, but was certainly not the cause of their break up, and have been told by Mufasa and Sally and other friends of theirs that I should not feel like that break up was my fault. So I try not to feel guilty about that.
Anyway, Sally and Mufasa did NOT break up, but they lived apart for a year. Sally found another girlfriend, as well. And during that time, Mufasa and I spent quite a bit of time together, getting to know each other and I fell hard, deep in love with him. And he fell in love with me, too. I am no longer just a some-time slave, I am also his lover, friend and girlfriend.
Mufasa never, ever wavered in his love for Sally, in being with her as often as he could. He never knew a name for his lifestyle before I researched it and talked about it to him, he just knew he loved and had the capacity and desire to love more than one woman.
The waters of the break-ups settled, including Sally and her new girlfriend, because Sally’s girlfriend wanted Sally all to herself and Sally would not give up Mufasa. Sally moved back in with Mufasa just over a month ago.
I love Mufasa so very much, and want him to be happy. And I have grown to care for Sally, too. I am not bisexual, but have been with Sally sexually twice, to please Mufasa. It would be more, if Mufasa had his way, but Sally is not his slave, and so it’s completely up to her. She would rather be with a lesbian or bisexual woman, and I can’t say I blame her. I’m willing and able and enthusiastic, but not what she really wants or needs. But we like each other and are becoming friends.
I want for Mufasa to be happy, for Sally to be happy, and for me to be happy. So I started researching online about poly relationships. And now I feel the need to discuss and share, and commune with others like us.
So here I am.
Hi!
