LaminarFlow
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When contemplating for a title of my blog, I almost wanted to insert "I have concepts of a blog title", but that seemed too cheeky. And with the state of the world as it is right now and feeling slightly pessimistic, I opted for something with a little more dramatic effect.
So my partners and I have been LDR the majority of the time. Magnet and I have since recently started to "nest" again, with him still keeping his own place. A spontaneous project in my country landed on his lap for ~3 to 4 years if not shorter, so I have emptied some drawers for him. It's been a very funny and WEIRD few weeks, but like really good weird??? The last time we nested was 8 years ago before life pulled us apart, and me being in my 20s was a very different phase of my life.
Last year we exchanged some couple bands. No, we are not betrothed or are planning to in the near future, but it was a very nice and special moment to show each other a different kind of commitment. We do talk sometimes about marrying our partners later in life, when we're 70-80 years old with all the children and grandchildren. Getting married at the near end, and celebrate all the achievements through a wedding is something we sometimes fantasize about out loud. Hopefully polyamorous marriages will be legalized by then.
Magnet Nesting 2.0 is a mixed feeling of Bambi trying to walk, adding extra parmesan cheese on a perfected Shephard's Pie and closing a Q4 M&A deal all-in-one. It's a ten second internal crisis vortexing, we laugh, eye-roll and get to the order of the day. Like what we are doing? Did we just took a time-machine back and forth, and back again? *shrugs*
Little One is over the moon with Magnet being here. Magnet usually has been staying here for a few days, sometimes a week or two max, depending on work, but hanging out with him for a longer period is making both of them definitely more chipper than usual. Aside from the big holidays, no partner lived here for a long time with us.
This now actually reminds me of the logistics thread I started and did an Irish Goodbye to. Whoops. I'll get back to that.
Also Sabre's birthday is coming up next month, and is going to do a big shindig. It's the first time that he's going to introduce us (the KTP) to ALL his family members. Uncertain about what to expect, but I'm quite sure an interesting evening is ahead. Some of them are a bit ehm... of traditional/conservative nature, so we might get some side-eyes from the captious aunties. My meta CC and I already made an agreement to giggle together over (virgin) cocktails in the designated poly-corner. We are determined fun is happening.
So my partners and I have been LDR the majority of the time. Magnet and I have since recently started to "nest" again, with him still keeping his own place. A spontaneous project in my country landed on his lap for ~3 to 4 years if not shorter, so I have emptied some drawers for him. It's been a very funny and WEIRD few weeks, but like really good weird??? The last time we nested was 8 years ago before life pulled us apart, and me being in my 20s was a very different phase of my life.
Last year we exchanged some couple bands. No, we are not betrothed or are planning to in the near future, but it was a very nice and special moment to show each other a different kind of commitment. We do talk sometimes about marrying our partners later in life, when we're 70-80 years old with all the children and grandchildren. Getting married at the near end, and celebrate all the achievements through a wedding is something we sometimes fantasize about out loud. Hopefully polyamorous marriages will be legalized by then.
Magnet Nesting 2.0 is a mixed feeling of Bambi trying to walk, adding extra parmesan cheese on a perfected Shephard's Pie and closing a Q4 M&A deal all-in-one. It's a ten second internal crisis vortexing, we laugh, eye-roll and get to the order of the day. Like what we are doing? Did we just took a time-machine back and forth, and back again? *shrugs*
Little One is over the moon with Magnet being here. Magnet usually has been staying here for a few days, sometimes a week or two max, depending on work, but hanging out with him for a longer period is making both of them definitely more chipper than usual. Aside from the big holidays, no partner lived here for a long time with us.
This now actually reminds me of the logistics thread I started and did an Irish Goodbye to. Whoops. I'll get back to that.
Also Sabre's birthday is coming up next month, and is going to do a big shindig. It's the first time that he's going to introduce us (the KTP) to ALL his family members. Uncertain about what to expect, but I'm quite sure an interesting evening is ahead. Some of them are a bit ehm... of traditional/conservative nature, so we might get some side-eyes from the captious aunties. My meta CC and I already made an agreement to giggle together over (virgin) cocktails in the designated poly-corner. We are determined fun is happening.
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