Pittsburgh poly couple looking for another couple....

[Loverofall]

We are looking for another couple to talk, have fun with (concerts, cooking dinner at home and weaving into each other's fabric of life). I've posted before so I must confess, I'm not exactly new per se, but we have a lot of love to give to the right couple.

 

[kdt26417]

Greetings Loverofall,
Welcome (officially) to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

I hope you find the right couple for you. It has been fun interacting with you on the various threads so far.

Read and post on!
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"

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[Loverofall]

We are still looking. Please message us, we are a nice no drama, no drugs, non-smoking (that is a deal breaker for us) couple who want to date, and all of the flowery things that go along with it. We want a grounded couple who is similar, but not exactly the same.

 

[kdt26417]

In case it will help, here are a few dating sites you could try:

• https://en.lovoo.com/#/
• http://www.okcupid.com/
• http://www.beyondtwo.com/
• http://adultfriendfinder.com/
• http://www.polymatchmaker.com/

Also you can search for local poly groups in your area using some of the following:

• https://fetlife.com/
• http://www.facebook.com/
• http://www.polygroups.com/
• http://polyamory.meetup.com/
• http://www.polyamory.org/SF/groups.html
• http://polyevents.blogspot.com/#localgroups
• http://openingup.net/resources/local-orginizations-u-s/

Googling "Pittsburgh polyamory" and "Pennsylvania polyamory" may also be helpful in finding a local poly group. If you do that, you can attend their get-togethers, make platonic friends, and something may take a romantic turn later on.

Anytime you meet poly people there's a chance for platonic friendship and then maybe romance later on down the line.

"As for where to meet poly people, if by some chance you are interested in anything alternative like Renaissance fairs, goth culture, sci-fi conventions, indie music, bdsm, or any small fringe group, you will be more likely to meet people who have at least heard of poly and are accepting of it."
-- SpaceHippieGeek, Polyamorous Percolations

Even if it's not an "alternative" type group, if there's a club or something in your area that does something you're interested in, you can always join that group and it just gives you a way to get out there and meet people. If you meet someone on a platonic level and get to talking about poly, then they can decide how they feel about it without any "pressure to agree." Then if they do decide poly doesn't bother them too much, and some kind of romantic connection subsequently develops, you'll already have "had the poly conversation" with them.

Don't know if this is all stuff that you've tried before already. Just in case it isn't I thought I'd throw it out there.

It takes quite awhile to find love in this lonely world, especially poly love. So keep looking, keep posting, and have lots of patience!

Sincerely,
Kevin T.