Re-introducing myself

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Nadya

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Hi,

I've been away from this forum for a couple of years and thought it would be okay to give a new introduction. Lately have been thinking more about poly life, and hence back here again :)

My home situation is basically the same than before: two live-in male partners, legally married to one of them. No kids, a cat. We have been practically in a closed relationship for the last two years or so after I had a very bad experience with a narcissist boyfriend. I almost left my two guys for him, but luckily came to my senses and left him instead.

It has taken time to fix the damage and regain the trust of my partners. Today we are in a good place relationship-wise and I think they do finally trust me again.

In addition to my live-in partners, I have a long time long-distance FWB, also male - I think I called him Steve here. This relationship is now changing, as he has finally found a primary partner of his own, and their relationship is closed at the moment. It means no sex between me and Steve for now. That is okay, as our friendship is the most important part for both of us. However, the no-sex-time has actually shown us both how much we love and care for each other. We are much more lovey-dovey than ever before, as the sex has been taken out of the equation. I find it very interesting.

So, I'm back :) Hello, all you old and new friends!
 
Welcome back Nadya! I've been here a bit less for a few months because I took a break from poly dating...

I'm sorry about your brush with the narcissist. There are few things worse than being taken in by creeps like that.

Glad you're happy and secure with your husband and partner again!
 
Greetings Nadya,
Welcome back! Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

It sounds like you have had some struggles, but things are working out for the best. You have been missed here ... I hope you'll continue to keep us updated on your situation. Namaste!

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter" :)

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Welcome aboard!
 
Thank you, Magdlyn and Kevin! It is nice to be back and feel welcome :) This forum is a very special one as the discussions here are so on topic and interesting.
 
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"This forum is a very special one as the discussions here are so on-topic and interesting."
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I know right? :D
 
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