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Hi, I'm a 43 year old woman from England. I'm moving into a poly lifestyle with my husband and am hoping to get some support while we try to figure things out.

My husband suggested hotwifing to me originally and I was absolutely adamant that I would never do such a thing. A few weeks later we had our first threesome, so I guess I was a bit more open to this lifestyle than I had realised. I've posted about my experiences on the OurHotWives forum, if anyone is also on that.

The threesome made me realise that I'm more interested in having relationships rather than single encounters, certainly at the moment. I enjoy meeting new people and building meaningful relationships with them. It may sound like a terrible cliche but I do love people and seeing people once then moving onto the next isn't terribly satisfying for me.

I got sent to this forum by some of the OHW posters as I think I might be looking for polyamory rather than hot-wifing. It would be great to hear from more experienced people who've already been on this journey.

SM xx
 
Greetings SluttyMouse,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

Based on your posts so far, I would say that you're definitely better suited to polyamory, rather than hotwifing. You can definitely get support on this forum, just let us know what would be helpful. I think the thing to do for now might be to get out there and start meeting people. OKCupid can be very helpful in that regard. In the meantime, I encourage you to keep reading and posting here, and learning as much about polyamory as you can. Welcome!

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter" :)

Notes:

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Welcome aboard!
 
Why thank you, Kevin!

It's very helpful to get concrete advice like that. It's hard to work out how to meet similar people and the swinging sites attract all sorts; some suitable, some less so!

I shall certainly look into OKCupid.

SM xxx
 
Give it a go; it's usually a pretty poly-friendly site. I wish you the best in finding the kind of people you are looking for!
 
SluttyMouse said:
Hi, I'm a 43 year old woman from England. I'm moving into a poly lifestyle with my husband and am hoping to get some support while we try to figure things out.

My husband suggested hotwifing to me originally and I was absolutely adamant that I would never do such a thing. A few weeks later we had our first threesome, so I guess I was a bit more open to this lifestyle than I had realised. I've posted about my experiences on the OurHotWives forum, if anyone is also on that.

The threesome made me realise that I'm more interested in having relationships rather than single encounters, certainly at the moment. I enjoy meeting new people and building meaningful relationships with them. It may sound like a terrible cliche but I do love people and seeing people once then moving onto the next isn't terribly satisfying for me.

I got sent to this forum by some of the OHW posters as I think I might be looking for polyamory rather than hot-wifing. It would be great to hear from more experienced people who've already been on this journey.

SM xx
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Just keep in mind the differences between swinging, hot wifing and polyamory. Poly is not about the sexual satisfaction of your husband watching someone else fuck you. It's about you and the new person, one on one.
 
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