Re (from Nettle):
You let reason prevail.
We can't always pick and choose the feelings we will feel, but we have control over how we act in response to those feelings. One may have a sense of urgency, but one can still go slowly and give everyone time to adjust.
"How do you handle the sense of urgency in new relationships, when actually the wisest way is to go slowly and give everyone time to adjust?"
You let reason prevail.
We can't always pick and choose the feelings we will feel, but we have control over how we act in response to those feelings. One may have a sense of urgency, but one can still go slowly and give everyone time to adjust.