Sex in a triad... Is every party always present?

This guy should learn to appreciate sex more. Whining about HEY TOUCH MY PENIS during a threesome with two women is just laughable.

Sometimes men can be so uptight about sex. My wife's boyfriend won't even let me see him naked, let alone participate in a threesome.

Just wanted to chime in with a bit of envy.
 
Gosh, hasn't he got a hand of his own? He has to have 69 while giving oral? He's spoiled!

Now, one point. If you and gf habitually sit on the couch and make out with each other to start the sexual ball rolling, and he's jealous, he could and should log off his computer, join you on the couch and starting kissing and fondling you girls.

Alternatively, one or both of you could go over to his chair and start kissing and fondling him. If he pushes you away because his damn game is more interesting, fine. Let him be and go off to the bedroom, the two of you. That'll teach him!
 
In the triad I was in, I did not believe we all had to be together for sex. It was initially a rule, but we dropped it pretty quickly. It was just too much pressure.

That said, it isn't uncommon. I have heard of triads come up with really elaborate plans to figure out when the entire group is ready, like, three candles in the hallway-- if all three candles are lit, game on. If not, no one is allowed to have sex. Very strange POV, in my opinion. But hey, whatever floats people's boats, I guess.

Sex is always best when there is a level of selflessness, especially when all three parties are involved. Otherwise, it just isn't the best sex it can be. (Well, unless you are into selfish sex, but that's a whole other beast.)
 
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