Introducing me. Pretty young Male 61 . . .have some issues but I can do plank for 1:45, lol. Ten year relationship changing form, hopefully? Maybe? A disintegrating relationship revived after my dearest "took a lover" who is her mentor in non-monogamy? But revivable truly only in the context of mutual non-monogamy? That's the hope, for now, for both of us. She made the leap, I need some symmetry to keep things sane. Very disoriented, but sincere in desire to be an ethical slut, per that absolutely wonderful tome, whose truths are an inspiration for sexual happiness and human compassion.
Shocked into Reality? The weirdest and most wonderful couple weeks of my life? WTF is going on with me?
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Greetings lovevry1,
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Sounds like you are in the midst of a massive transition from mono to open/poly. You have a good positive attitude about it, and will do well. You have read the Ethical Slut which is a great book. Now read "Opening Up," by Tristan Taormino. I highly recommend it. In the meantime, keep reading and posting on this forum, and let us know of any questions you may have. It's great to have you with us!
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Kevin T., "official greeter"
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Welcome aboard!
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.
Sounds like you are in the midst of a massive transition from mono to open/poly. You have a good positive attitude about it, and will do well. You have read the Ethical Slut which is a great book. Now read "Opening Up," by Tristan Taormino. I highly recommend it. In the meantime, keep reading and posting on this forum, and let us know of any questions you may have. It's great to have you with us!
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"
Notes:
There's a *lot* of good info in Golden Nuggets. Have a look!
Please read through the guidelines if you haven't already.
Note: You needn't read every reply to your posts, especially if someone posts in a disagreeable way. Given the size and scope of the site it's hard not to run into the occasional disagreeable person. Please contact the mods if you do (or if you see any spam), and you can block the person if you want.
If you have any questions about the board itself, please private-message a mod and they'll do their best to help.
Welcome aboard!
