Single Female who just moved in with boyfriend and his wife- anyone in my situation?

Well, I don't know if I would phrase it that way exactly but even if we said I was a marital aid - is that such a bad thing? She and I have become good friends and he and I have a good relationship and most of the time it honestly makes me happy to see them getting closer again - back to what I admired about them when I first met them and what made me want to enter into a polyamorous relationship with them.

In reality, things are good - it seems to just be my own thoughts that are getting in my way and clouding what isn't a bad situation at all. I think it was actually you that said something to me in another post about just being in-tune or tuning into a new situation within the relationship that has caught my attention and just respecting that for what it was.

I know a few days ago when I answered your response to me, I was actually feeling a little down which I mentioned in my response - since then I have come to realize what was "bothering" me so am now feeling a lot better :)
 
kdt26417- I honestly have never felt any negative feelings or that she doesn't want me around. Their first poly relationship with another woman ended horribly for them and she said she felt from day one she was trying to break up their marriage and wanted W all to herself and that she felt threatened and like she had no say in the matter (this is the reason she says she went behind W's back to continue to see someone that she wasn't supposed to be seeing).

I'm not like that - I wanted to enter into a relationship with them because of what they had and how they interacted with one another - I had/have no intention of breaking anything up.
 
Sounds like T recognizes that.
 
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