Space and respect

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grayeyes

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I am the secondary gf to my bf. My bfs primary has seen pics of me and she wants a gf. So do I. He and I talk about his primary and I to have a gf gf relationship. I'm fine with that. In fact I am looking forward to it! Her and I haven’t met yet.

This weekend they are together. I didn't contact him today because of respect for them to have quality time together. He didn't take it that way.

My intention is to add love and to be respectful to their union. He and I have bonded quite beautifully. He is as he puts it madly in love with her. I know he is.

He thinks that I am stressed out about it. I told him it's not stressful on me. I'm doing my own thing this weekend for me time. They have a lot to talk about. I'd like them to work through this and process the thought of 3 of us in a relationship.

I don't want to hurt her or him. Does that make sense?
 
I sent him a text and said have a great weekend!

Then he said we'd be chatting during the weekend.

He must be used to gfs not being okay. Honestly I am okay. Only time will show him it's really okay.

I have a date tomorrow and out of respect I won't be answering texts
 
Hi Gray,

What you're doing makes sense to me, and I would hope your boyfriend (and his primary) would be appreciative that you're giving them some time and space. Maybe sometime the three of you can get together and you can explain your feelings to them.

Good luck and keep us posted.
Sincerely,
Kevin T.
 
Wait. You're fine being the girlfriend of a woman you've never met?
 
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