That was unexpected...


New member
Well it's all ticking along nicely. I had a week or 10 days of feeling a bit insecure due to inconsistent patterns of communication and my overactive imagination.

Then we (me+BF) caught up casually a couple of hours one on one, lots of nice words came out from him, starting with I missed you, ending with him calling himself my other man.

I've come to realise he's genuinely busy and there's a window for communication before bed and not to let my fears get in the way of an uneventful reality. I've signed up for a LDR, very low key but fun when we're together and that's what I'm getting.

So interesting learning not to get in my own way...


Official Greeter
Staff member
Well, I'm glad to hear things are going smoother now. It sounds like you were your own worst enemy back on Post #17, you were scared that maybe Boyfriend was withdrawing from you, and then it turned out he was just very busy, and there's a window for communication before bed. I hope the two of you can continue to develop an understanding of each other, it sounds like you will.