Well it's all ticking along nicely. I had a week or 10 days of feeling a bit insecure due to inconsistent patterns of communication and my overactive imagination.
Then we (me+BF) caught up casually a couple of hours one on one, lots of nice words came out from him, starting with I missed you, ending with him calling himself my other man.
I've come to realise he's genuinely busy and there's a window for communication before bed and not to let my fears get in the way of an uneventful reality. I've signed up for a LDR, very low key but fun when we're together and that's what I'm getting.
So interesting learning not to get in my own way...
Then we (me+BF) caught up casually a couple of hours one on one, lots of nice words came out from him, starting with I missed you, ending with him calling himself my other man.
I've come to realise he's genuinely busy and there's a window for communication before bed and not to let my fears get in the way of an uneventful reality. I've signed up for a LDR, very low key but fun when we're together and that's what I'm getting.
So interesting learning not to get in my own way...