The best way to get your ex back is to not talk to them after the break up. Begging them to come back, writing letters, texting, calling, etc. only push your ex away because you're not respecting boundaries. When you're completely silent, women get anxious and wonder "does he still love me? Is there still a chance?" Uncertainty drives them crazy lol. I was surprised when I got almost all of my exes to message me after the break up using this method lol. If your ex comes back, you have to make real changes if you value the relationship.