After being theoretically poly for 18 months, I just make a small foray into a poly connection. What I am loving, is that after spending sometime with a person who interests me, there is no part of my brain that is asking if they are "the one". In the past, I wasted a lot of energy, and eliminated possible wonderful connection, because I wanted to make sure I would not get trapped by picking the wrong one.
But this time, the only question that went through my head was, "Do I like this person, and is what we are doing now feel good?" Everything else will evolve and take care of itself.
But this time, the only question that went through my head was, "Do I like this person, and is what we are doing now feel good?" Everything else will evolve and take care of itself.
