I was asked into a poly relationship with a married couple of 7 years and should have known better then to just jump in and not wait and see their relationship, foolish of me. for a few months it was fine i loved the guy but could tell the girl was one to turn her back really quick and talk about you while there but through that she involved me on everything. buying a new house, helping raise their 9 month old, and even pushing me and the guy to get our relationship better, and probably to fast. but she ran to jealousy very very fast and completely stabbed me in the back. i still loved the guy but told him i could not do it anymore, then he told me everything, multiple marriage counseling, wanting a divorce before and other things. he made the choice to demand a divorce after the final straw of chasing me away. I still love him and he still loves me and we decided to keep seeing each other.
Am i the bad guy here? i kinda feel like the other woman now that stole a husband; and how do i give him advice without sounding totally biased....cause i am. divorce sucks but i also want to keep him any advice?
Am i the bad guy here? i kinda feel like the other woman now that stole a husband; and how do i give him advice without sounding totally biased....cause i am. divorce sucks but i also want to keep him any advice?