BellaMzchief
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Im new to this so bare with me. This has been driving me nuts but heres the rundown. My fiance and I have been together for almost 11 years. We have always thought about bringing someone else in our relationship for a very long time.. Needless to say, I met a wonderful woman and words cant express how I feel about her. I have always had an interest in other women- particularly studs. So this woman is stud and we have been dating for about 7 months now. My fiance is perfectly ok with this. He knows everything and she comes around alot. We have all been intimtate together and its freaking amazing. She doesnt mind pleasing me and him and enjoy when she does please him. He also have pleased her but it hasnt been actual intercourse. She is not opposed to having sex with him but i am not fully comfortable with that yet. We have talked about it and im sure eventually it will happen. But i knowit will take time but just know that we are talking about 11 years where it was just him and I.. We all have an amazing time hanging out and jus being silly, we all support each other financially, emotionally, etc. she has told me she loved me and I feel the same way. Once again- hubby knows everything. However, the issue I am having is that we have 2 children and I feel horrible sometime having her around. We obviously dont do anything infront of the children but shebis very involved with them babysitting etc. Is something wrong with me for loving two people? And wanting to spend the rest of my life with both of them?? My family doesnt not know and I do not know how to even bring tht conversation up with them however I dont want her to feel like she is just a secret for us. We are all happy- hubby loves her- we ll take care of wach other in every way(not just sexually) but sometimes i always question whether i am doing the right them having this tupe of relationship around our children. Although they are still tound 2 and 3, eventually they will start putting things together. I keep thinking that this is wrong(according to society) but we are happy. No jealousy no secret. In other words they have that bromance relationship where they talk about cars and other manly things but then her and I do the female things getting our nails done etc. i always have someone to talk to bcause they work opposite schedules. But i still feel like Im wrong for wanting two people. They are both ok with the relationship but I dont know i feel like something is wrong wit me. They dont do anything unless we are all together meaning sex. Please help any advice would be appreciated.
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