Trans* Queer in an Open Relationship

[zoreh]

Hello everyone! I'm a trans* queer non-binary person (he/him pronouns) and in an open relationship with a wonderful queer cis woman. We don't necessarily call ourselves poly, but recognize it as an umbrella term that we fall under.

We've been dating for about 3 years, and have had a wonderful time communicating and have various sexual partners and have dealt with our jealousy and insecurities pretty well, if I do say so myself.

At the moment--which is why I joined the forums--I'm starting to fall romantically for someone I've been seeing sexually, and who is a friend of mine. I think she feels the same way, and she's also in a poly relationship. I don't really have anyone to talk to about it, and I'd like to figure out my own feelings first before I talk to my partner about changing the dynamic of our relationship.

Thanks for the welcome and speak to you soon!

 

[kdt26417]

Greetings zoreh,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

I looked at your other thread, and responded there briefly. Basically, you want to keep it simple, and emphasize to your partner your undying love for her. Give it some thought, and sort out your feelings before you talk to her about your friend. Hopefully you will get the advice/feedback on Polyamory.com that you need.

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"

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