He hasn't been physical with someone else, just online discussion. We have been involved in BDSM for a while but only played with each other. I've done a lot of reading and discussing having a second sub with other subs and doms and reading on certain kinks he has. I know he wouldn't have a problem with me watching him be with another sub but I would be uncomfortable. Thinking of him connect with another person that way makes me feel very inadequate.
Trying to gain understanding
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hjeckyl, just because you (seem to) like threeways of one kind or another doesn't mean other poly people will. You mentioned the "possibility of a threeway" as a recommendation for poly on another thread too. There's nothing wrong with group sex or voyeurism, but they are not a given in polyamory.