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I wasn't even going to say anything about the first post. But the no-protection thing, coupled with the first post? No no no.

As far as being invincible-- I've always been a big fan of condoms. I've gone without, but not until in a well-established mono relationship and on birth control. Apparently, I'm one of the .1% it wasn't effective for. Or we just had already had condomless sex 99.9 times and wore out our luck. :p
 
:rolleyes: Really? Like I'm that dumb, I'm going to go sticking my junk into anything that moves? C'mon now, y'all know me a bit better than that. I'm not gonna go run out and fuck her before I know what I'm getting INTO. heh heh heh.

Anyway, very insulting that you think I'm just another statistic (irresponsible teenager). I'm not stupid, nor am I blind. I know what my current girlfriend has done. I know we're both clean. As for Krissy, I'm obviously going to have to learn what she's done, and if she's clean before I do anything. Seriously, I'm not stupid. And as for not wearing protection, I'm ready for whatever happens. I wouldn't take a risk if I didn't know the consequences. Take a little time to get to know me before you reprimand me.
 
Here is a suggestion and not a reprimand, something I learned from a favorite advice columnist, Mr. Savage.

Problems with condoms and dicks... as it doesn't seem to be an allergic reaction, this might help with the problem of taking so long. Practice. Not with intercourse, but with manual overrides. Put on a condom and get yourself off, or have your partner help you manually. Keep working on it. Try different amounts of lube in and out of the condom. Practice does make perfect. This might just help so that you can limit the risks and consequences all around.
 
I didn't say you ARE a statistic OR a stupid teenager. I said don't BECOME one. I'm sure you and your gf are well established and have been tested and have discussed consequences. I'm talking about bringing this new person in. How do you KNOW she's clean or won't lie or is ready for consequences herself? The conversation between you online seemed very sexually focused, not relationship focused. If she's more about a good time than a lasting relationship, who knows? This isn't a reprimand, but a concerned person telling you we're all irresponsible, too trusting, or just stupid from time to time and hoping you will be safe rather than sorry.
 
vandalin said:
Here is a suggestion and not a reprimand. Something I learned from a favorite advice columnist, Mr. Savage.

Problems with condoms and dicks... as it doesn't seem to be an allergic reaction, this might help with the problem of taking so long. Practice. Not with intercourse, but with manual overides. Put on a condom and get yourself off or have your lady/ies help you manually. Keep working on it, try different amounts of lube in and out of the condom. Practice does make perfect and this might just help so that you can limit the risks and consequences all around.
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Hmm, I suppose I could give that a shot, Vandy. Thanks for the advice. ^^
 
Anytime. I just want you to keep yourself and your loves as safe as can be. ;)

No matter how ready we may feel to face certain death, or at least illness, and the longest lasting STD of all, children, dealing with it can be totally different and unexpected thing. And that can go for positives, as well.

But definitely check out Dan Savage's column, Savage Love. Lots and lots of excellent info, and usually very amusing, as well. ;)
 
vandalin said:
Anytime. I just want you to keep yourself and your loves safe as can be. ;)

No matter how ready we may feel to face certain death, or at least illness, and the longest lasting STD of all, children, dealing with it can be totally different and unexpected thing. And that can go for positives, as well.

But definitely check out Dan Savage's column, Savage Love. Lots and lots of excellent info, and usually very amusing, as well. ;)
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Thanks for lookin out for us.

I talked to Krissy and she said she was tested 3 weeks ago and it came out with her being clean. Over time, I'll learn how she is and eventually know if she's a liar or not. :) Then we'll go from there. Until then, no harm with her and Haley playing with the captain. xD
 
berserker239 said:
To which I said "I'm only half joking. lol" implying I'm polyamorous.
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You implied you were up for a threesome, actually.

Anyway, your tale fits with most involving finding a woman to make for a triad. She wasn't looking for a couple and it just sort of fell together because of a connection with one half of a couple. Congratulations!

I'm a sucker for happy endings.
 
SeventhCrow said:
You implied you were up for a threesome, actually.

Anyway, your tale fits with most involving finding a woman to make for a triad--she wasn't looking for a couple and it just sort of fell together because of a connection with one half of a couple. Congratulations!

I'm a sucker for happy endings.
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Thanks, Crow. XD I'm glad to finally have a triad.
 
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