Hi, I'm married and we are looking for a second wife. Someone who wants a family and kids and love. You could either be a sister wife or we all sleep together. Please be Christian it is important to us to share our family and grow with someone who shares our beliefs. We are not anti gay obviously and we do have a drink ocasionally but we try to stay healthy.
We want a second wife.
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Hope you find what you want. My wife and I had a wonderful life with her best girlfriend for 38 years. We had a wonderful life but we had no children. Our g/f has a son and a husband but we made it work. Not a single problem in all that time. Our g/f knew she was wife number two in our household but wife #1 in her own marriage. We do not know what the deal was with her husband allowing her to spent so much time with us but we suspect he is a bisexual cuckold who is strongly leaning towards men. He is a doctor and needs to appear to be a married man, I guess. We did not ask and he did not tell.
I will advise you that it can be brutal to find a third on the internet. So many people will play you until they can no longer do so. You will run into men pretending that they are women. Some will want pictures and stories about what kind of sex you two are into, etc.. We wasted a lot of time trying to find a real person on the internet. The free sites are the worst as anyone can pretend on them without paying a dime. You will have better luck on pay sites but even then, you may run into many who will tell you what you want to hear and then just show up for the sex.
We were lucky in that my wife's best friend who was a woman I knew even longer than my wife did, is bisexual and entered our life eagerly. Both women are bisexual and our triad centered around me as the woman had sex with each other only with me present although I think that was due to their moral upbringing and fear of being labeled as lesbians which was a problem 50 years ago.
Hope you and your wife have the joy and love that we experienced. I think it requires a combination of people that can be together as jealousy and insecurity are powerful emotions and most times do not surface until it all becomes real. Just make sure that you make each of the women feel as desirable and pretty as each other. Give them as much equal attention as you can. Some women are very insecure about their bodies and sexiness and watching your husband obviously enjoying sex much more with another woman, can cause problems. Set limits and refine them as you go along.
Over time, we ended up with no limits except we never had sex with an outsider. I had sex one on one with our g/f but the two ladies only had sex with me present. We each slept in our own bedrooms to avoid any problems about whose turn it was to sleep with who. None of use were jealous. We all had participated in wife swapping or having sex with our partner, in front of others doing the same. We knew before beginning our relationship with another, that we could all handling watching each other have sex with another and being intimate in front of each other.
Good luck and do not forget that sometimes you love is right under your nose. For us it was my wife's best friend but we also had relationships with other friends and a few couples just down the block from us before we found the one for us. Basically you need to let others know that you are looking. You do not have to be direct about it. You can be indirect in what you say or say it in a kidding manner. My wife used to tell her g/f that she could use another wife in the house, for instance. She would jokingly say that in front of other women. It could easily be laughed off but with some, they got the message.
It really helps if you are friends first as none of our friends lasted with people they brought in who they did not already have emotional bonds with. As with anyone you meet, you will not know if you are a match for a while and it is really bad if this getting to know you phase is done when the other women is living with you. Some women can be very competitive and love to take a man away from their wife. I have seen it and had it tried on me. You just need to be careful but I am proof that it can succeed.
I will advise you that it can be brutal to find a third on the internet. So many people will play you until they can no longer do so. You will run into men pretending that they are women. Some will want pictures and stories about what kind of sex you two are into, etc.. We wasted a lot of time trying to find a real person on the internet. The free sites are the worst as anyone can pretend on them without paying a dime. You will have better luck on pay sites but even then, you may run into many who will tell you what you want to hear and then just show up for the sex.
We were lucky in that my wife's best friend who was a woman I knew even longer than my wife did, is bisexual and entered our life eagerly. Both women are bisexual and our triad centered around me as the woman had sex with each other only with me present although I think that was due to their moral upbringing and fear of being labeled as lesbians which was a problem 50 years ago.
Hope you and your wife have the joy and love that we experienced. I think it requires a combination of people that can be together as jealousy and insecurity are powerful emotions and most times do not surface until it all becomes real. Just make sure that you make each of the women feel as desirable and pretty as each other. Give them as much equal attention as you can. Some women are very insecure about their bodies and sexiness and watching your husband obviously enjoying sex much more with another woman, can cause problems. Set limits and refine them as you go along.
Over time, we ended up with no limits except we never had sex with an outsider. I had sex one on one with our g/f but the two ladies only had sex with me present. We each slept in our own bedrooms to avoid any problems about whose turn it was to sleep with who. None of use were jealous. We all had participated in wife swapping or having sex with our partner, in front of others doing the same. We knew before beginning our relationship with another, that we could all handling watching each other have sex with another and being intimate in front of each other.
Good luck and do not forget that sometimes you love is right under your nose. For us it was my wife's best friend but we also had relationships with other friends and a few couples just down the block from us before we found the one for us. Basically you need to let others know that you are looking. You do not have to be direct about it. You can be indirect in what you say or say it in a kidding manner. My wife used to tell her g/f that she could use another wife in the house, for instance. She would jokingly say that in front of other women. It could easily be laughed off but with some, they got the message.
It really helps if you are friends first as none of our friends lasted with people they brought in who they did not already have emotional bonds with. As with anyone you meet, you will not know if you are a match for a while and it is really bad if this getting to know you phase is done when the other women is living with you. Some women can be very competitive and love to take a man away from their wife. I have seen it and had it tried on me. You just need to be careful but I am proof that it can succeed.
Greetings live,
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I think maxnsue's advice is good, take it to heart and I hope you find the perfect second wife for you.
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"
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Welcome aboard!
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.
I encourage you to post your ad on our Dating & Friendships subforum, you may be able to get more hits from people in your locality that way.
I think maxnsue's advice is good, take it to heart and I hope you find the perfect second wife for you.
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"
Notes:
There's a *lot* of good info in Golden Nuggets. Have a look!
Please read through the guidelines if you haven't already.
Note: You needn't read every reply to your posts, especially if someone posts in a disagreeable way. Given the size and scope of the site it's hard not to run into the occasional disagreeable person. Please contact the mods if you do (or if you see any spam), and you can block the person if you want.
If you have any questions about the board itself, please private-message a mod and they'll do their best to help.
Welcome aboard!