Moriarty501
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When my partner (E) and I decided this was the road we wanted to travel we had done our research and thought we knew what we wanted… We thought we wanted to go with a stage/vixen style relationship(s).
We started on Feeld looking to meet someone. Right off the bat we meet someone, online only, that was looking to cheat on his wife. My partner was mortified. And expressed big concerns that this was all we were going to meet.
I asked if I could do some vetting. I wasn’t sure what I was gonna do but wanted to put her mind at ease a bit. Then I figured it out. As we had separate accounts, if a new male reached out to her and also me they seemed to be a better fit in the sense of what we thought we were looking for.
The introduction - We first meet O. O seemed to share a very similar background to me. Was very flirty and polite at the same time with E. We kept a three way chat going and we were all getting very comfortable with each other. Along with O we meet J around the same time. O was super responsive and offered to take us out for drinks. J was very honest with us but was just always busy.
Drinks with O - We all had an amazing time and great conversations. He was very easy to talk to and knew this was our first time meeting someone new. His supportive nature and easy going personality made him very attractive to both of us. On the way to the car he asked if he could give E a kiss. It was amazing. Not gonna lie my heart did jump. He invited us to go to a swingers bar a couple of weeks later. We all agreed and said our good nights.
Two weeks - During this time we went and had drinks with O a couple of more times and everything seemed great.
We continued to talk to J as well and got to know him better. Remember we thought we had it all figured out and were going to be a stag/vixen dynamic.
The swingers club - We all met for a drink and headed to the club. All of us were so damn excited. When we got there O introduced us to a few different people. We all then wondered around and really relaxed around each other. In one of the rooms E stood between O and I and pulled are hands around. Things quickly escalated… lol. Before the night was over E, O and I had had our first adventure.
O, thanks for all the fish - In the days after O was super responsive and chatty. Then I had to go on a work trip and O had to go to a wedding. We were all having a great time still chatting and everything seemed to be good. Then the day O was supposed to get back, crickets. Nothing. E was confused and so was I. Again E started to question everything. We had a very long chat about the whole experience and in an odd way came to the conclusion that maybe it was for the best. E was still pissed.
Let’s have another round - Remember J? He, in his persistences, in staying in touch worked. E decided after a couple of weeks she would like to at least meet J. I was game. So again we go out for drinks. J was at the bar waiting when we got there. He quickly jumped up and gave both of us a big hug. Pulled E’s chair out and we all started talking. The night was amazing! E even at one point looked over and was very blunt on her feeling (So hot). Again walking to the car there was kissing. We all had a second date even better than the first. They had a fun ride home…
We then all meet up and got a room this time. Holy hotness! The a few weeks latter and then again. Thennnnnnn…
Well this is going to take up more of my time than I thought - I asked E if she wanted to get on Feeld and look for someone new. She looked at me and said she was not really wanting to. Ahhhh shit. We had an amazing chat that night. She explained she was really happy, and the thought of trying to find another person seemed like more time than she wanted to put into it. She really needed a connection.
We talked about J and came to the joint decision that we were done looking. Soon once a month turned into 2 to 3 times a month. Then dates with just the 2 of them. And so on…
Well look at things now - We have no idea what to ‘label’ ourselves as. We spend a lot of time together now, but don’t live together .We are an MFM dynamic. Now before we get into the hate please understand this is what works for us, we are a hierarchy. THIS was a choice made by all of us. Both J and I come from a background where chain of command was everything. It just works for us.
Side note - J and I share the same first name. More to come about the fun that’s has been.
We started on Feeld looking to meet someone. Right off the bat we meet someone, online only, that was looking to cheat on his wife. My partner was mortified. And expressed big concerns that this was all we were going to meet.
I asked if I could do some vetting. I wasn’t sure what I was gonna do but wanted to put her mind at ease a bit. Then I figured it out. As we had separate accounts, if a new male reached out to her and also me they seemed to be a better fit in the sense of what we thought we were looking for.
The introduction - We first meet O. O seemed to share a very similar background to me. Was very flirty and polite at the same time with E. We kept a three way chat going and we were all getting very comfortable with each other. Along with O we meet J around the same time. O was super responsive and offered to take us out for drinks. J was very honest with us but was just always busy.
Drinks with O - We all had an amazing time and great conversations. He was very easy to talk to and knew this was our first time meeting someone new. His supportive nature and easy going personality made him very attractive to both of us. On the way to the car he asked if he could give E a kiss. It was amazing. Not gonna lie my heart did jump. He invited us to go to a swingers bar a couple of weeks later. We all agreed and said our good nights.
Two weeks - During this time we went and had drinks with O a couple of more times and everything seemed great.
We continued to talk to J as well and got to know him better. Remember we thought we had it all figured out and were going to be a stag/vixen dynamic.
The swingers club - We all met for a drink and headed to the club. All of us were so damn excited. When we got there O introduced us to a few different people. We all then wondered around and really relaxed around each other. In one of the rooms E stood between O and I and pulled are hands around. Things quickly escalated… lol. Before the night was over E, O and I had had our first adventure.
O, thanks for all the fish - In the days after O was super responsive and chatty. Then I had to go on a work trip and O had to go to a wedding. We were all having a great time still chatting and everything seemed to be good. Then the day O was supposed to get back, crickets. Nothing. E was confused and so was I. Again E started to question everything. We had a very long chat about the whole experience and in an odd way came to the conclusion that maybe it was for the best. E was still pissed.
Let’s have another round - Remember J? He, in his persistences, in staying in touch worked. E decided after a couple of weeks she would like to at least meet J. I was game. So again we go out for drinks. J was at the bar waiting when we got there. He quickly jumped up and gave both of us a big hug. Pulled E’s chair out and we all started talking. The night was amazing! E even at one point looked over and was very blunt on her feeling (So hot). Again walking to the car there was kissing. We all had a second date even better than the first. They had a fun ride home…
We then all meet up and got a room this time. Holy hotness! The a few weeks latter and then again. Thennnnnnn…
Well this is going to take up more of my time than I thought - I asked E if she wanted to get on Feeld and look for someone new. She looked at me and said she was not really wanting to. Ahhhh shit. We had an amazing chat that night. She explained she was really happy, and the thought of trying to find another person seemed like more time than she wanted to put into it. She really needed a connection.
We talked about J and came to the joint decision that we were done looking. Soon once a month turned into 2 to 3 times a month. Then dates with just the 2 of them. And so on…
Well look at things now - We have no idea what to ‘label’ ourselves as. We spend a lot of time together now, but don’t live together .We are an MFM dynamic. Now before we get into the hate please understand this is what works for us, we are a hierarchy. THIS was a choice made by all of us. Both J and I come from a background where chain of command was everything. It just works for us.
Side note - J and I share the same first name. More to come about the fun that’s has been.
