Why would someone make assumptions about my ability to consent to sex? When I can consent.

Is the person claiming you are unable to consent someone you have previously had sec with? Or is it someone who you know in person but haven't had so with? Or a complete stranger you have never met?

I'm asking to ascertain why they have targeted you with their ascertain.
 
Evie said:
Is the person claiming you are unable to consent someone you have previously had sec with? Or is it someone who you know in person but haven't had so with? Or a complete stranger you have never met?

I'm asking to ascertain why they have targeted you with their ascertain.
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It was someone on a Facebook forum that I never met in my life. Was a complete stranger. They said to me “I'm sick of hearing your nonsense, it's everyday. Your lack of self awareness is only strengthening the case that you can't consent to have sex at all” Why would they come up with something about my ability to consent when it’s been confirmed by doctors that I can consent. Are they wrong for saying this to me? Why are they making up lies that can ruin my reputation? What should I do? I am very high functioning and had sex a lot!
 
Anon106 said:
It was someone on a Facebook forum that I never met in my life. Was a complete stranger. They said to me “I'm sick of hearing your nonsense, it's everyday. Your lack of self awareness is only strengthening the case that you can't consent to have sex at all” Why would they come up with something about my ability to consent when it’s been confirmed by doctors that I can consent. Are they wrong for saying this to me? Why are they making up lies that can ruin my reputation? What should I do? I am very high functioning and had sex a lot!
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Well do you notice that you ARE being repetitive? Even in this short discussion?
 
Tinwen said:
Well do you notice that you ARE being repetitive? Even in this short discussion?
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Yea and they are annoyed at it but I’m repetitive about it because of my anxiety and they assume I can’t consent because of it. But I had sex plenty of times. So why are they acting like this?
 
Anon106 said:
Yea and they are annoyed at it but I’m repetitive about it because of my anxiety and they assume I can’t consent because of it. But I had sex plenty of times. So why are they acting like this?
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Yes, you're anxious (actually, obsessive? have you been diagnosed with ocd too?). That may not be a choice. How you deal with it is a choice. Clearly displaying it very openly in the way of repetitive questions annoys some people. They feel bad so they want you to feel bad.

Block the person and LET THAT COMMENT GO, can you do that? If not, why not? What is the actual fear?
 
Tinwen said:
Yes, you're anxious (actually, obsessive? have you been diagnosed with ocd too?). That may not be a choice. How you deal with it is a choice. Clearly displaying it very openly in the way of repetitive questions annoys some people. They feel bad so they want you to feel bad.
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Yes I am diagnosed with ocd also. Really, so what they are saying about me isn’t true?
 
Anon106 said:
Yes I am diagnosed with ocd also. Really, so what they are saying about me isn’t true?
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Is that the fear? That they are right?
 
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ref2018 said:
Because they enjoy watching you freak out about it. BLOCK THEM.
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And then saying I'm sick of hearing your nonsense, it's everyday. Your lack of self awareness is only strengthening the case that you can't consent to have sex. Is not true? I’m going to block this person. I know for a fact it’s not true
 
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