Why

[fernie]

We've tried swinging. I've seen her with many, many, many, many men individually. At the same time, I've done just about everything I can imagine. But that was one thing. When she tries polyamory I freak out when I see her holding her boyfriend's hand.

 

[Evie]

It sounds like you're feeling displaced, and afraid, and that these changes are just too much to process right now. Please stop driving, it's dangerous to drive when distraught and distracted.

Be safe tonight first and foremost.

 

[kdt26417]

Hi fernie,

It sounds like swinging was tolerable for you, but polyamory is not tolerable because she is having feelings for her new boyfriend. Holding his hand shows that she is having more than just sexual feelings for him, I think that is the reason why poly is so awful for you. Tell her you need her to stop.

Sympathetically,
Kevin T.