MtnPolyLoversX2
Member
I have recently had some very nice respectful conversation with single women. I’m transparent from the start of conversation. Honesty and full disclosure but I keep running into this typical response to me being Poly … “oh you just want to have sex with as many women as possible” or “I’m not looking for a Fu** buddy”
I just don’t know if I’m running out of answers or just don’t know what the right answer is to give when I’m given questions and statements like that . I understand as a single male it’s a uphill climb but I’m tired of feeling like I have to “convince them” their vision of a Poly male is incorrect or at least for me it is.
is their a short canned answer to give that might clarify it for them without boring them to death? I suppose I could just direct them to this site if they have the interest in researching it for themselves
I sometimes feel like a failing car sales person trying to give all the perks why she would continue to be interested, like I constantly have to give a pitch on a late night infomercial
Dating is difficult enough as a single male ; this is just downright exhausting. How have you other men dealt with this and Women have you been in the same position trying to “convince a man” ?
Thank you again always . I love this group of people
I just don’t know if I’m running out of answers or just don’t know what the right answer is to give when I’m given questions and statements like that . I understand as a single male it’s a uphill climb but I’m tired of feeling like I have to “convince them” their vision of a Poly male is incorrect or at least for me it is.
is their a short canned answer to give that might clarify it for them without boring them to death? I suppose I could just direct them to this site if they have the interest in researching it for themselves
I sometimes feel like a failing car sales person trying to give all the perks why she would continue to be interested, like I constantly have to give a pitch on a late night infomercial
Dating is difficult enough as a single male ; this is just downright exhausting. How have you other men dealt with this and Women have you been in the same position trying to “convince a man” ?
Thank you again always . I love this group of people