My wife and I are a (hetero) northern California couple who after over a decade of monogamy are tippytoing into the world of poly, in part because my wife is bisexual and we both agree that putting her in a box is not making either one of us happy. We have quite a few poly friends, so this is not terra incognita, but still a huge change for us. We're willing to see where things lead and go with it.