I get listening to the right in an attempt to understand how this could happen, because you thought it was unthinkable.
You do not want to believe that so many of your countrymen are misogynists, racists, bigots. You want to grok the reasons, and hey maybe, we can, by addressing any legit concerns those folks might have, prevent Trump from getting another term, prevent this kind of crazy from happening again, etc.
Like make damn sure the next blue candidates have got a handle on whatever the fuck drove so many folks to vote Trump.
Well this article was illuminating:
http://www.cracked.com/blog/6-reasons-trumps-rise-that-no-one-talks-about/
Like many Cracked articles, it starts out with a premise that is kind of upsetting and confronting, but by the time you get through it, you'll be like well...alright, I guess I can see why some folks might feel this way...
So there is that. And then there is the massive proliferation of tinfoil hat thinking. So here's the issue we've got in modern America. Because we no longer rely on "the news" being a few well established edifices of journalism considered to be basically beyond reproach, and because we are all encouraged SO MUCH to be "individuals"...people basically form whatever opinions out of a blend of self interest and the stuff they hear around them. From their friends, families, and so on. And once they get their own bias solidly in place, they only believe whatever confirms it. Period. Everything else is lies, propaganda, etc. It does not matter where it comes from. No source is safe from attacks upon its credibility. The biggest most solid names are all part of the secret society, Jew run, big power/big money, mind control machine. I'm not even joking. So many Conservatives think this.
And you know what, to some degree in a "yes and no" sort of way, I agree with them. I do think that there are a few very old, powerful families, some (but certainly not all) Jewish, that do hold a great deal of power and influence.
EDIT: I should point out, my personal opinion is that no matter if a few of the big old money families are traditionally Jewish, that really just has nothing to do with anything at this point. I'm sure a few are Catholic, some probably atheist, at this point it's irrelevant. The tinfoil hat folks think it matters, but it doesn't. I know for a fact that regular Jewish folks are regular folks. There's no overarching conspiracy at work there. I know some people who think otherwise. They are idiots.
However, unlike my tinfoil hat friends, I do NOT assume that it's like the plot of a movie, where they are some sort of dark cabal hell bent upon the destruction of our freedom and humanity, pulling the strings to some awful end, necessarily. I actually think that what probably benefits the ones at the very top the most, is a productive working society that is divided enough within itself that we will never band together to challenge anyone in authority or power, but not SO divisive as to have chaos and unrest take completely over...after all, we need the workers to keep working, breeders keep breeding, life to go on. The peasants must toil the fields so that the lords can enjoy the spoils.
I think that in one way or another it has always been that way, and maybe it always will. Our "Democracy" is kind of a joke.
The mistake that the red voters have made however, is to think that because Trump has not been in government, he is not part of this machine, that he is something NEW. No, he's part of it alright, because government and business, media and big religion, the big institutions and their leadership have been so incestuous for so long (with few exceptions, I rather like the new Pope) that you cannot say that a big business guy is not part of the big government monstrosity. They go to the same parties!
But back to listening or not... As I've said, I've heard enough. And this is having a tremendous effect upon my social life. I used to be part of a big community surrounding the band GWAR, and that is going away for me. There were many Trumpers in that group...I mean, we're talking a few hundred people here, so there were bound to be some. But listening to them is listening to TROLLS. They are all like, "liberal tears, what's the matter, someone grab you by the pussy? lolololol" That is what you get to hear if you listen to Trumpfans. And if you choose not to listen to them, they say you "can't handle" what they have to say. You're too weak.
I was in an abusive relationship for 18 years, as many know. He never hit me. But he broke my mind and spirit. Honestly I wish he had hit me.
Listening to these people...they would force cruel, schoolyard bully behavior and speech into your face, and if you choose to shut them out of your own space, or get up and quietly leave, they will chase you if they can, trying to MAKE you hurt. MAKE you hear them. And when it hurts, it is your own fault for being weak.
Donald Trump is King Pig of this barnyard. These are not reasonable people, many of them. Too many of them.
When you are in an abusive situation, you've got every business trying to leave, and when your "friends" are abusive friends, you should not be friends with them anymore, and when people are not being reasonable, I do not have to listen. My time has more value, as does my peace of mind.
So some are wondering, "What can we do?" And a couple of the most brilliant minds on the left that I know of have had some helpful things to say about this. Give your compassion, energy, kindness, time, money, whatever you have to give, to those who might need it the most. It was suggested to volunteer at charities, donate to rape crisis centers and domestic abuse shelters, LGBTQ+ community resources, ethnic and religious minority connected charities, etc...to try and reach out and be there for our most vulnerable citizens during this time. Reassure them that their entire society has not turned its back. We have to try and survive the next 4 years somehow. We'll get by with a little help from our friends.