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TPowl90

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Hellooooo. I'm a polyamory explorer of the male kind, fresh off many moons of failed monogamy and finally realising that my searching for that one perfect person to satisfy my every desire in a partner is likely a fruitless, perhaps naive endeavour.

I've been dating polyamorous girls this year via apps, but, while enjoying the process, have a slight sense of lost-lambness rather than being armed with the knowledge and understanding required to handle the various scenarios, especially in terms of early communication and the development from trial dating to something more ongoing.

There seems to be plenty of advice out there for those looking to turn a monogamous relationship into an open one, so any links or guidance you can offer me on how to approach polyamorous dating from the other perspective (that of the single explorer) would be hugely appreciated.

Thanks, and hello again. Double hello. Just one 'o' this time, though.
 
Greetings TPowl90,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.
Here's a few links that may be helpful to you:

Especially Poly FAQ, it's just something to get you started. I hope you can find some polyamorous girls who are right for you!

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter" :)

Notes:

There's a *lot* of good info in Golden Nuggets. Have a look!

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Welcome aboard!
 
TPowl90 said:
Hellooooo.

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There seems to be plenty of advice out there for those looking to turn a monogamous relationship into an open one, so any links or guidance you can offer me on how to approach polyamorous dating from the other perspective (that of the single explorer) would be hugely appreciated.
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It's cool you're (so far) single. We could term you "solo poly." There are many people on this board who identify this way. Many of us who live alone, like our independence, and do not have to attempt to Open a formerly monogamous relationship into a polyamorous oriented one. It makes it easier, in many ways!

Feel free to start a thread about your concerns in the Relationships section, with specific questions you may have!
 
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